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36 questions that bring 2 people close to each other to fall in love✅✨🍋

"36 Questions That Get Two People So Close To Falling In Love" comes from Arthur Aron's research in the field.

Social Psychology The idea is to gradually open up deeper.

Level by level. Pass 3 sets of questions (12 each) to create a bond. ❤️

Below are 36 full questions (Thai translation):

Series 1: Getting to Know

1. If you choose to eat with anyone in the world, who will you choose?

2. Do you want to be famous for what?

3. Before calling someone else, have you ever rehearsed what to say? Why?

4. What kind of day is your ideal?

5. When was the last time you sang to yourself and sang to others?

6. If you live to be 90 years old, you want to keep your 30-year-old body or brain.

7. Do you have a hunch about how to die?

8. Tell me 3 things you think you and I have in common.

9. In this life, what are you most grateful for?

10. If you change the way you were raised, what do you want to change?

11. It takes four minutes to tell your life as closely as possible.

12. If you wake up tomorrow and get a new feature, what do you want?

Set 2: Getting Deeper

13. If a magic marble tells you the truth of life, the future, or anything, what do you want to know?

14. What have you dreamed of doing for a long time but haven't done yet? Why?

15. What is the greatest achievement in your life?

16. What do you value most in friendship?

17. What is your most precious memory?

18. What are the worst memories?

19. If you know how to die in a year, will you change the way you live?

20. "What does friendship" mean for you?

21. What role does love and bonding play in your life?

22. Take turns telling each other five advantages.

23. How close is your family? Do you think your childhood is happier than others?

24. How was your relationship with your mother?

Set 3: Very deep

25. Say three "we" sentences, such as "we both feel..."

26. Fill in the sentence: "I want to have someone who shares... with me."

27. If we're gonna be close friends, tell us the important thing the other person should know about you.

28. Tell the other person what you like in him (seriously, not superficially).

29. Tell me the events that embarrassed you the most.

30. When was the last time you cried in front of others?

31. Tell me one thing you like in him now.

32. Is there anything you think should not be joked about?

33. If you die tonight without a chance to say goodbye, you will regret most not telling anyone anything.

34. If your house is on fire, you will save all your loved ones and pets, you will go back and pick up something else.

35. From the family, who is dead will grieve you the most. Why?

36. Tell your personal problems and ask the other person what they think and how they will deal.

💡 Arthur Aron's experiment asked two people to answer these questions, and then they looked at each other for four minutes.

🧡 slowly read and understand each sentence of the question. It may be a little difficult to understand because it is translated from the original language again, but if you answer it fully, you will get the answer you want. 😘# Talk love # Love question # Q & A relationship problems

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