In today’s world, many of us struggle with maintaining friendships that no longer serve us, especially when those friends behave poorly as parents. I’ve found it’s crucial to normalize the act of stepping away from friendships that become harmful or draining because of this. It’s not easy, especially since friendships often come with years of memories, but prioritizing mental health and well-being is essential. Over time, I noticed that certain friends who were once close had started showing behaviors that felt neglectful or harmful toward their own children. This not only caused me concern for their kids but also affected how I felt emotionally when around them. Often, you might feel guilty about distancing yourself, but it’s important to understand that maintaining friendships with people who exhibit toxic parenting can take a toll on your mindset. Setting boundaries with such friends is a healthy practice. It doesn’t mean you have to completely cut off all relations immediately, but recognizing their impact on your life and gently stepping back can bring clarity and peace. I've learned to communicate my feelings honestly and choose to surround myself with people who uplift and support me and my values. This mindset shift emphasizes that friendships should enhance your life, not cause stress or discomfort—especially when the other party’s role as a parent shows signs of harmful behavior. Remember, it's okay to outgrow relationships and seek connections that nurture your growth and happiness.