The phrase "ran through" carries significant social weight, especially in the context of relationships and personal reputations. Men, like anyone else, can be influenced by societal expectations and cultural norms when it comes to how they perceive the past experiences of others. This label often refers to judgments about someone's romantic or sexual history, which can impact how individuals are approached or valued in different social circles. It is important to understand that while some men might care about such labels due to ingrained biases or societal pressures, many are beginning to challenge these outdated notions. In modern relationships, qualities like mutual respect, trust, and emotional connection are increasingly prioritized over superficial judgments based on past experiences. Understanding why men might care about this label involves recognizing the broader influence of stigma, gender stereotypes, and communication patterns. Encouraging open conversations about past experiences without judgment can help break down harmful assumptions and promote healthier connections. Ultimately, labels like "ran through" can be limiting and unfair. Both men and women benefit from focusing on character and present behavior rather than preconceived notions based on someone’s history. Empowering individuals to own their stories and dispel stigma contributes to more authentic and respectful relationships.
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I know her anxiety and ADHD she mentioned having has to be so high right now as someone also has those diagnosis amongst others. I thought she also mentioned in a recent podcast she has that she has stopped taking anxiety medication and didn’t take anything for ADHD. She doesn’t go too much into it but I know as someone who has been through it and had to stop a medication that’s extreme and physicians easily passed it has been physically and emotionally exhausting and disruptive. I can’t imagine going through an adjustment while you have made parts of you public and your life. Some may argue this persona she has or that she is public so expect the worst of it. But let’s acknowledge condoning that behavior that’s coming from more then one person is overwhelming and just because it’s “life” doesn’t mean it should be or that because you have had to handle things differently that others should be equally if not more equipped to the comparison you forced yourself to be. A woman makes a decision for her puts small parts out and it’s all these theories that define her and her character. Because she doesn’t install the same narrative you have or that changed and because you would never then automatically it makes her life look bad. I honestly like her podcast when I’m feeling overstimulated she’s the calm down. She treats people as if she is freshly getting to know them some sarcasm and not as a figure. And it’s very clear she can get really uncomfortable but she is making and has made something out of it and that’s her pursuing something for herself. A lot say she’s not loud, vocal but I’d rather watch her to debrief then a big personality loud and very vocal podcast with maybe strong opinions or invasive in the interviews. There’s places where it fits so knocking anyone who is. Like Quen Blackwell love her seriously I’m very selective but she has amazing content and has healthy way coping with ADHD,anxiety, OCD not that they define her but she is secure