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The right love is to love someone along with loving yourself.😍âœĻ

The Right Love: When "Loving Him" and "Loving Us" Walk Along

Many people often misunderstand that "love is a sacrifice" so that they lose their identity, give up their dreams, or neglect their happiness to please another person, but in reality, the most beautiful and enduring love is that we can love someone with all our heart while appreciating and caring for our own heart.

1. Loving yourself is not selfish.

The basis of healthy love begins with "ourselves." If we do not know how to fulfill happiness for ourselves, we often expect lovers to do that role instead, which creates a burden and pressure on the relationship. Loving ourselves gives us enough "positive energy" to share with others without feeling deprived.

2. Personal space is the area of understanding.

Right love is not to fuse into one flesh to suffocation, but to "stand beside each other" with the right distance. To honor each party's personal time, preferences, and society is to say, "I love you the way you are, and I'm still me the way I'm proud."

3. Boundaries are mind protection armor.

Self-love teaches us to reject what is not and not allow anyone to hurt repeated feelings. Right love will encourage us to speak the truth, to set boundaries, because we know that our happiness is meaningful, not losing their happiness.

4. Grow together (Mutual Growth)

In a good relationship, both people should feel themselves "better" when having each other. We support his dream. While he also faints under the wings, giving our dream. The right love will not cause one person to stop stationary so that the other person walks unilaterally.

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