A letter to my first born son

This one goes to my first born son who loves me profoundly.

No matter the years that go by you'll always be my heart outside of my body.

You saved my life.

You molded me into the woman that I am today.

Though life hasn't always been sunshine and rainbows you believed in me and gave me grace even when I fell short.

God gave me you knowing parenting doesn't come with a blueprint.

He knew I needed you.

I'm honored to be on this journey called life with you.

You are one of one.

There's nobody quite like you.

Even if you venture off to do your own thing we'll always be on a flight , road trip , and / or phone call away.

Just because you're on the spectrum doesn't mean you can't go off to do marvelous things.

God is a way maker.

You will one day realize that everything you are meant to do and all that you're meant to be is set in stone.

Nobody on God's green Earth will harm you.

You have Mom , Dad , your grandmas , 1 sibling so far , 8 aunts , 2 uncles , 20 cousins ready to come to your rescue.

You have a roster of guardian angels watching over you.

You are the beginning of a new legacy.

You hold the baton.

Don't you dare give anyone your superpowers ... the way that you love , your protectiveness , your generosity , your goofiness.

Your intelligence is through the roof.

Your mind is a complex maze filled with brilliant ideas.

There's no soul like you.

You are rare to come across.

May God protect you on your journey always and continue to guide me in this lifetime of yours to be the best mother.

~ Yours Truly

#onthespectrum #autismmom #adhdawareness #oppositionaldefiantdisorder

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... Read moreWriting a letter to a first born child, especially one on the autism spectrum, is a profound way to express the unique bond between a parent and child. From personal experience, raising a child with special needs teaches us courage, patience, and unconditional love unlike any other. Each day brings new challenges, but also countless moments of joy and discovery. It's important to remember that being "on the spectrum" does not limit one's potential; rather, it opens the door to a marvelous array of possibilities. Many individuals with autism display incredible talents, creativity, and perspectives that enrich our lives and communities. In my journey, I’ve learned that the most critical support comes from family unity — a strong network of parents, siblings, relatives, and friends who come together to uplift and protect. Like the letter’s sentiment, having a close-knit circle acts as a safety net and a source of encouragement when navigating uncertainties. Faith and hope also play a vital role. Believing in a higher purpose and trusting that our children’s paths are divinely mapped out provides peace amidst trials. God as a "way maker" serves as a reminder that nothing in life is accidental, and that even when the road is difficult, there is always guidance and protection. Parents of children with ADHD, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, or other neurodiverse conditions often share similar experiences of learning together alongside their children. Celebrating the child's individuality and nurturing their unique strengths—including intelligence, creativity, and empathy—helps build resilience and confidence. Most importantly, treasure the everyday moments—flights, road trips, phone calls—that connect family. These small acts of love and communication become the foundation for a lifetime of memories and growth. Encouraging children to embrace their "superpowers" like generosity, goofiness, and protectiveness fosters self-worth and joy. In conclusion, being a parent to a child on the spectrum is both a challenge and a blessing. It invites us to grow in grace, patience, and unconditional love. Cherishing this journey builds a legacy of hope and strength for generations to come.

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Awwwwwww wow, what a strong and powerful letter to your son we all need this inspiration for our sons thank you Queen. All of our men needed this even our husbands. I love it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🍋🍋🍋🍋🍋🍋🍋🍋🍋

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