Is it wrong to forgive?..On the day love was betrayed?

Is it wrong to forgive?..On the day love was betrayed?

"Why still forgive him?" "Is it stupid to give up?" "Doesn't it hurt?" How many times do you have to answer these questions from those around you? How many times do you have to fight a voice in your heart that says "forgiveness" in this story? It's wrong. It's a shame? You know, actually...The answer is not in anyone but in your heart!

Stop seeing forgiveness as wrong! Because I will answer the fact that "forgiveness is not surrender, but liberation from pain!"

You know that..."Forgiveness" is the gift you gave yourself!

Many view forgiveness of those who have had an affair as forgiveness of wrongdoers and acceptance of pain...But it's not! True forgiveness is not for others, but for "yourself!"

It's Liberation: That you forgive doesn't mean you forget the pain, but you're choosing not to let that pain hurt you again! You're freeing yourself from the shackles of anger, resentment, and regret!

It's Opening the Way: When you release your pain, you create a space in your heart for new pleasures, for new opportunities to come to life!

It is a show of strength: forgiveness is something that requires enormous courage and heart-power! The one who can do it is not the weak, but the one who is "tougher" than anyone else at all!

Remember: Life is like driving! If you keep stepping on the brakes and looking at the rear window all the time, you can't go ahead! Forgiveness is when you release the brakes and look forward!

So how to forgive?..That's not self-deception?

Forgiveness is not easy, and it takes time! But if you intend to do it, it is not impossible!

Ask yourself heart: Do you really forgive him? Or just fool yourself? True forgiveness will come with peace in mind, not resentment hidden inside!

Set clear terms: Forgiveness doesn't mean having to go back to your old life! You have the right to set conditions. Set new rules. To protect your heart!

Give time as a remedy: Don't rush! Forgiveness takes time! Allow yourself to get hurt, to cry, to feel fully! Then slowly move on!

Forgive Yourself: The most important thing is to "forgive Yourself!" that ever hurts. That ever regrets! Because you're not wrong at all!

Remember: The answer is always on your mind! No one can determine whether your forgiveness is wrong or right...Only you know it's best for you!

Today, let's end with the harrowing quote: "Forgiveness does not make the wrong man right...But it keeps you 'free' from what used to hurt you! "

What do you think forgiveness in this situation is for you? And are you ready to forgive today? Let's share some comments!