Compendium of lessons from "Kik Mon."

The conclusion of the lesson from "Kik Mon" that shakes every relationship to revisit itself.

In the midst of a social stream full of complex and fragile love stories, the analysis of Kik Mage has become an alarmingly powerful and straightforward lesson. She doesn't talk about love as just a matter of two people, but goes into the "core" of a relationship that is often overlooked: dealing with one's mind. These conclusions are like a light that shines a painful truth but needs to be accepted to lead to a lasting better relationship.

Love yourself first...Then good love will follow

Pee Kik's analysis begins with a point that most people overlook: self-love. She points out that many relationship problems are caused by not loving and not appreciating ourselves. When we are insecure from the inside, we expect others to fill us with infinite happiness. And when that expectation does not meet our needs, disappointment, frustration, and suffering follow a chain. So the first step to a good relationship is not to find someone, but to come back to understanding and loving ourselves.

Expectation is the fuel of suffering.

Pee Kik pointed out sharply that expectation is the culprit of love. Pure love should not be conditional or expected to follow our hearts. Trying to change others to be what we want is impossible and will create endless conflict. The solution is to accept the fact that "no one can change anyone" and to communicate with each other's differences.

Life must live by "truth," not "imagination."

The most profound lesson from Pee Kik is to take us to the principles of dharma that can be used in life. She taught us to accept the truth, that everything in this world changes, whether it's love, relationships, or even ourselves. Letting go and accepting the truth will free us from the suffering of attachment. She also stressed the importance of being conscious of the present, not being overwhelmed by the past, and not worrying about the future that is yet to come, because true happiness is living at every moment.

The favorite deep quote from "Kik Mon"

"The distress in the relationship stems from us wanting to change him, but we never change ourselves."

"We must love ourselves first, and good love will follow."

"If we take good enough care of ourselves, quality people will come into our lives."

"Forgiving others starts with forgiving yourself first."

"Happiness doesn't lie with having anyone, it's where we can live on our own happily."