Checklist questions before Manifest

Really want it, or just "society says it wants it."

Ever? Manifest things as you like.

Get a new job, get a house, get a girlfriend, or get paid.

But when I got it, I felt empty.

A sense of self-doubt flashed that

"Why aren't we as happy as we thought?"

Admittedly, in this day and age, Manifest has become a popular tool.

Of people who want to grow up, but many are falling into the trap of "Manifest to Other People's Expectations."

Unknowingly.

🌼 want high positions just because they want to be recognized...

But never stopped asking myself,

What would a higher position be exchanged for?

And are we really ready to take that huge pressure there?

🌼 want a big house.

Just because you don't want to feel "lost" to your peers...

Both, in fact,

The life space we need for peace of mind.

Probably not even that big.

🌼 want to have a perfect girlfriend by the standards that society says are good...

But the perfect human is not the most comfortable.

After all...We Manifest Those Things Succeeded

Instead, it's Manifest, something that never aligns with

A little bit of our True Self.

Why can't we distinguish what really is our need?

Psychologically, Self-Determination Theory (SDT)

We humans are driven by two main motives.

Which has a completely different nature and outcome:

1.Extrinsic Motivation

"Do it because you want a reward or are afraid of being judged."

Is a desire motivated by external factors.

Such as money, job titles, commendations, peaks,

Or social acceptance.

Its nature is often accompanied by conditions.

"If I get an X...I feel valued. "

For example,

'If I get this brand-name bag...

I feel like I'm worth it. '

The point of confusing us: external motivation is not always bad.

But it gives you a "temporary dopamine injection."

When you get it, it feels great for a moment, and then it disappears.

We need to keep grabbing new things.

2. Intrinsic Motivation

"Made because of true value, meaning and happiness."

Is the desire that truly arises from the inside of the mind.

Do it because it gives meaning. Feel calm. Grow.

Or consistent with our Core Values.

Without waiting for anyone to applaud.

The nature of it is that there is no external reward to lure.

Or just at that point, the heart feels filled and satisfied by itself.

(Provides a sustainable serotonin / endorphin substance)

So why does psychology say that we can't distinguish these two?

A major cause is due to a psychological phenomenon called Introjection (unconscious adoption of external things into one's own).

1. The brain is created with a fake memory (Overjustification Effect):

As we plow society every day, society gradually "cultivates."

Images of other people's achievements

Like having this house, driving this brand,

Must eat this restaurant and look good

Our brains believe that these things are "happiness."

So we overlay the inner motive, and we thought,

"I really want this." In fact, we just

"Want acceptance" through that.

2. External motivation drowns out the sound of the heart itself:

External motives tend to be louder.

(More money, cooler looks, more social)

So it obscures the inner motivation that makes a lighter and softer sound.

(Calm, time to rest, doing things dear)

So we chose Manifest, what "noisy" came in first.

But when it comes, the heart inside still feels empty.

Before you do Manifest, big things in life, whether it's work, finance, love or housing, want your friends to take a break and ask yourself clearly what we really want. When you get the right answer, "Amplify the Essence" of that in detail, such as:

Not just "craving a new job," but what does it feel like for us? What is the environment like? How do we respect ourselves while doing this job?

Friends can put these questions in a journal or ask themselves while meditating and concentrating on their breath. (Secretly whispering that the first answer that comes up is usually the most authentic, concise and clear answer)

💡 True Self Checklist

Career & Career Path (Reference: Ikigai & Self-Alignment Framework)

💛 Question: "If this work is unknown, no one gives praise, and no one on social media sees it, do I still want to do it?"

💛 Amplify the Feelings: When we are working, what does the environment feel like? How do we feel about ourselves in the working hours?

Finance & Items Wanna Possess (Reference: Values-Based Financial Psychology)

💙 Question: "Do I need this money to live in my own way or to erase my fear of not being good enough in other people's eyes?"

💙 Expand the Feelings: What is the real feeling when we have targeted financial freedom? (e.g. peace, security, or freedom)

Love & Relationships (Reference: Attachment Theory & Authentic Relational Needles)

🩷 Question: "Do I want to have this person in my life because he aligns with me and my happiness, or because I just want to have someone so much minus loneliness?"

🩷 Expand the Feelings: When living with this person, what is the energy between us? Can we be the most relaxed version of ourselves?

Home & Housing (Reference: Environmental Psychology)

💚 Question: "Is this house designed to answer my daily living problems or designed to look good in the eyes of visitors?"

💚 Extend the Feelings: When waking up early in this house, what is the atmosphere, sunshine, and first feeling that touches the heart?

The most powerful Manifest is not good at

"Attractive," but to be good at "knowing and being honest about yourself."

When your goal is inherently consistent inside,

Your energy will be clear. Any desire will be attracted quickly.

And most importantly, when you get it,..You'll be truly happy with it.

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