Before you said I not pretty, pls wait for me to take a shower first!

We all have those moments when we feel less than our best, especially right before a shower. It's like the world hasn't seen our glow yet because we're still in that 'just woke up' or 'end of the day' state. For me, the time before a shower is when I remind myself to be patient. Confidence isn’t about how we look in that moment, but about how we feel inside. A shower is more than just cleansing the body—it refreshes the mind and spirit. I find that after I shower, I see myself in a new light, literally and figuratively. My skin feels softer, my hair is clean, and I feel rejuvenated. That little boost in self-care helps me appreciate my appearance more. Including a fun perspective, like the popular phrase 'me before I shower', adds humor to everyday struggles with self-image. It also reminds us not to be too hard on ourselves. Sharing such moments connects us with others who feel the same pressure to look perfect all the time. So next time you catch yourself rushing to self-judge, maybe wait until you've had that shower. Give yourself the grace and time to feel refreshed and ready to face the world with confidence. You might just like what you see afterwards! ©Felix Tan 2025