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Relationship theory

According to the theory, '# Human relationships'

Five years is how we

✨ change the environment.

✨ change your mind.

✨ redirect.

And people who "suited us back then."

So it appears based on our growth.

.

Like the universe intended to allocate a new chapter for us to learn.

"Don't regret" who's missing.

And "no rush" to anyone who just came in.

Because everyone who stops in our lives

Each has their own role.

.

Some roles.. short

Some roles.. long

But everyone... always comes in at the right time. 🕊️🌻

.

# Relationship theory # Nice to read

2025/11/23 Edited to

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