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If the fans have many "past..." can you accept each other?

📌 If a boyfriend has multiple "pasts..." can you accept them?

1. The past is true, it cannot be deleted, but we have the right to choose how to view it.

2. Some people have a lot of fans = through a lot of experience may make him know how to love to be

3. But if the past is still haunting, such as the ex-girlfriend greeting often = must think hard

The important thing is, does he currently choose us? Not to choose but to say... but to "show it."

5. If his ex-girlfriend still has a role = Do not blame the past, but blame him for not cutting it off.

👉 Last... "past" is not a problem, but if he is not clear to us, when = immediate problem.

# Love, relationships # Relationship narrative # Girlfriend # Ex girlfriend

2025/9/15 Edited to

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