Becoming Her: The One God Called Me to Be
There’s a quiet beauty in letting go of who you used to be. The girl who used to chase validation, overthink every word, and carry her worth in the opinions of others.. she’s gone.
Now, there’s peace where pressure used to live.
There’s faith where fear used to lead.
There’s purpose where confusion once stood.
When you walk with God, He doesn’t just change your direction, He changes your heart. The woman you’re becoming will look nothing like the girl you were, and that’s the point. Growth in Christ means surrender, transformation, and grace upon grace. 💛
📖 “You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self… and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.” — Ephesians 4:22–24 #christianwomen #christianlemon8 #walkwithgod #becomingher
Life can be a relentless rush, especially when you're heading into a workday filled with tasks, deadlines, and unexpected challenges. I remember a time when the weight of expectations would often set the tone for my entire day, even before I stepped out the door. That 'girl I was,' constantly seeking approval and battling internal anxieties, often felt overwhelmed by the thought of what lay ahead. But something shifted when I started integrating a simple, heartfelt prayer into my morning routine before work. It wasn't just a ritual; it became a cornerstone in my journey of 'becoming her,' the woman God called me to be. For me, a prayer before work isn't about asking for an easy day, but for a transformed heart and mindset. It’s about consciously choosing to put off the old self – the one prone to worry, self-doubt, and comparison – and to put on the new. This daily act of faith helps cultivate that peace where pressure used to live, and faith where fear used to lead, right from the start of my day. It sets an intention, reminding me that my worth isn't tied to my productivity or others' opinions, but to God's unwavering love. So, what does my prayer before work typically look like? It doesn't have a rigid structure, but it often includes these elements: Gratitude: I begin by thanking God for the new day, for the opportunity to work, and for His constant presence. Even on challenging mornings, finding something to be grateful for immediately shifts my perspective. Surrender and Guidance: I specifically ask for His guidance in my tasks, decisions, and interactions throughout the day. I pray to surrender my plans and anxieties to Him, trusting that He will direct my steps and provide clarity where there might be confusion. This is where I truly feel 'the woman I'm becoming walks with God' – by actively inviting Him into every aspect of my professional life. Strength and Patience: The workplace can test us. I pray for strength to face difficulties with grace, for patience with colleagues or clients, and for discernment to respond wisely rather than react impulsively. Purpose and Impact: I ask that my work, whatever it may be, would be used for His glory and for the good of others. It helps me see my job not just as a means to an end, but as a platform for purpose, even in the smallest tasks. Protection and Peace: Finally, I pray for protection over my mind, emotions, and interactions, asking for His peace to guard my heart throughout the day. This deliberate pause, even if just for a few minutes, has profoundly impacted how I approach my work. It’s not a magic bullet for every problem, but it consistently re-centers me. I’ve noticed a greater sense of calm, increased focus, and a healthier perspective on challenges. It’s a powerful practice that reinforces the transformation mentioned in the original article, making the journey of 'becoming her' a lived reality day by day. It helps me leave 'the girl I was' behind, and confidently step into the day as 'the woman I'm becoming walks with God'.
