When love frightens... should go on or just enough?

🌙 Story from Last Night's Life: When Love Scares... Should It Go On or Enough?

Last night, someone consulted on a live story that was so heartbreaking that he wanted to tell everyone.

He said...

"We already have a girlfriend, but are shaken by the new one.

Because the current boyfriend is jealous, nagging, hot-tempered, hurting both physically and mentally sometimes.

The new ones are great, always listening, caring and on our side.

We wanted to leave this relationship, but we were afraid of hurting him and afraid that he would hurt us... "

This is not just a love triangle, it's a matter of safety in a relationship.

🔥 hidden danger sign.

A love full of

• Control from jealousy

• Hot temper that drains

• Physical and psychological abuse, even to say that just sometimes

👉 These aren't love, but it's Toxic Relationship that destroys confidence and happiness piecemeal.

💫 Why are you wavering with someone new?

Because new people show what should have been from love all along.

• He listens without judgment.

• He took care and encouraged

• He makes himself feel worthy.

So wavering is not wrong, but it says that your heart yearns for safe love.

🚪 The scariest thing... is not to break up, but to stay.

Many people dare not leave the relationship because

• Fear of hurting the other's mind

• Fear of being hurt back

• Afraid of a new beginning

But remember,

Love that frightens... not love that should be kept

✅ What should I do?

1. Assess your own safety first.

- If you risk being hurt, plan out carefully, ask someone to trust.

2. Talk to someone who can be trusted.

- Don't keep it alone, because help will make more decisions.

3. Leave a relationship for yourself. Not because of someone new.

- A fresh start should come from the courage to love yourself, not because someone's waiting.

4. Remember... you are worthy of embracing love, not hurting.

💌 message to people who are experiencing this situation.

Guts sometimes... not to endure, but to walk out despite how scared you are.

You deserve to have a safe love and make your heart happy. 🌈

💭 "If love scares you, ask yourself... is this love or a trap?"

📌 Hashtag

# Safe love # ToxicRelationship # Love yourself first

# Heal heart # MoveOn consciously# Good relationship

# Guts start over # Love shouldn't hurt