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5 things that people often think about before death

Based on the experience of palliative care and several studies, it was found that...

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Near death, most people do not think about money, work, or success, but revert to the most "meaningful" things in life.

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What most people think about is

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1) Dear people

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Parents, children, life partners, close friends.

Many people want to "see" or "sorry-thank-you-love."

In the end, relationships are always more important than success.

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2) Unresolved matters

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Words that have not been said

Unborn forgiveness

Some people suffer because they still can't let go of some things.

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3) Ordinary times of happiness

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Laughter in the house

Rice meal together

Warm sunshine in the morning.

It's not a big event, it's a small memory that means something.

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4) Question to yourself, "Are we living worth it?"

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Many people do not regret "doing too little work," but regret "living too little self-indulgence."

Do not dare to love

Do not dare to choose

Didn't dare to rest

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5) Fear and the search for peace

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Some people fear death.

Some people are very calm.

People who have practiced consciousness or accepted impermanence are easier to calm down.

Because he doesn't see it as a loss, but sees it as "the ordinary of life."

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Deeper than that...

The end phase of the breath.

Many people do not think of long sentences, but only "feelings."

Love

Lamentation

Too bad.

Or calm.

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This knowledge is very important because it is not for thinking about death, but for us to "arrange our lives today." ☘️

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