Good Riddance

Background:

I joined in 2016 during my senior year of HS.

My life was a struggle. I needed something to do. I looked into the National Guard as a means to be in the military but, still have a civilian life and go to school. Due to sad circumstances-I wish not to discuss-school never happened.

After completing my first 6 year contract. I decided to get out. I was over the military the minute I got to my home station, tbh. Even though I was PT, I seem to always have to do something military related at the most inconvenient times of the year.

So What Happened After my First Contract?

I reenlisted for another 2 years. At this point I’m getting ready to turn 25. I felt like I didn’t have any transferable skills and didn’t take advantage of my benefits when I was in. While going through the reenlistment process, I’m asking questions. Anyone in a government/federal position I encountered, I would ask about their job; how they got in it, qualifications, background; until I landed my first government contractor Job.

Now I am officially content with where I am in life. I am now in a position where I make a great living, with the potential to not only excel in my company but in the government/federal industry.

So why good riddance to the army? Because I don’t like it😂 I never did. The friends I met made me love it a little. But I’m good.

I have a career that brings me stability that is not overwhelming at all. And I now want to focus on pursuing the things in my life that I actually have a passion for.

Thanks for letting me vent😂

2024/6/19 Edited to

... Read moreIt’s a common feeling, that moment when you realize it’s time to say "Good Riddance I'm leaving the army" or any military branch. I remember feeling a mix of relief, fear, and excitement, much like many who decide to transition out of military service. My own journey from the National Guard to a stable civilian career wasn't without its challenges, especially when it came to understanding my options and leveraging my experience. One of my biggest worries, and something I hear often, was the fear of not having ‘transferable skills.’ We spend years developing specific expertise within the military, and it can be hard to see how that translates to the civilian job market. But trust me, you have more transferable skills than you think! Things like leadership, problem-solving, discipline, teamwork, adaptability, and even specific technical proficiencies (from logistics to communication systems) are highly valuable. The key is learning how to articulate these skills on a civilian resume and during interviews. Don't just list your military roles; explain what you did and the impact you had, using civilian-friendly language. Another regret I had was not fully taking advantage of my military benefits when I was still serving. If you're contemplating leaving, or are in the process, please don’t make the same mistake! Research everything available to you. The GI Bill can be a game-changer for education, whether it's a degree or vocational training. VA loans can help with homeownership. Many programs are designed specifically for veterans transitioning to civilian life, offering resume assistance, interview coaching, and networking opportunities. Look into the Transition Assistance Program (TAP) – it’s a great starting point for understanding your benefits and resources. My path to a government contractor job came from relentless networking and simply asking questions. I approached anyone in a government or federal position, curious about their roles, qualifications, and how they got there. This informal networking, combined with a clear understanding of the type of work I wanted, eventually led me to a fulfilling career. Don't be afraid to reach out on LinkedIn, attend job fairs, or connect with veteran organizations. Many employers actively seek out veterans because they recognize the invaluable qualities and work ethic we bring to the table. Making the leap from military life to a civilian career can feel overwhelming, but it's absolutely achievable. Embrace that 'good riddance' feeling as a powerful motivator for a new chapter. Focus on identifying your strengths, utilizing your benefits, and building connections. Your military service has equipped you with unique capabilities; now it’s time to apply them to build the civilian life you truly desire.

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You are doing great ! I applaud you for giving it a shot. And, it did help you to gain the job that you are now happy with. You’re still very young and you can and will have a life.❤️

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