The 40 + s actually know that the house is not everyone's Safe Zone. 🥺🖤

🔥 grew up knowing... we didn't grow up like "no pain."

We're just "taught to be quiet."

# Grow up and know that

# Tell stories in the past

# Family Story

# Relationship narrative

# 40 plus must meet

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No one has ever taught us that

"The Words of the People in the House"

It can destroy a child's confidence in his entire life.

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🖤 "Why can't this be done?"

🖤 "Is this the best you can do?"

🖤 "Don't think too much. It's a small thing."

These sentences...

Not gone anywhere

It became a voice in our heads.

Every time we try to be a better person,

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Grow up to know that

We are not very thoughtful.

We just used to be "made to feel never good enough."

Repeated... by the person we love the most

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And it hurts where

Even though today we are grown up

We still have to live.

To fix wounds that I didn't create.

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Some lucky.

There's a family, a Safe Zone.

But some...

It takes a whole life.

Learn how to "be safe on your own."

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🌿 So today we chose

Will not take the words of the past

Come to define your own values again

🌿 will not try to be "someone who pleases."

Until forgetting that we should be satisfied first

🌿 And won't feel guilty.

If one day we have to "love ourselves more than anyone's expectations,"

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🤍 a little older.

We're not getting stronger because it never hurts.

But because we "dare admit to being hurt."

And choose not to hurt yourself again

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If you read it here,

I want you to know... you're very good.

👉 Save this post...

In case you accidentally go back and blame yourself. 🤍

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🖤 What words have you ever had from your family?

That you still remember until today?

Can you tell me...

Maybe your story.

May help many other people