🎊Getting my life together

In 2019 I was persistent to attend a 2 year community college and not actually figuring out what I actually wanted to major in. I was already in a bad spot staying with a controlling narcissistic mother that made my life hell while working full time and then trying to go to college taking two buses back and forth to work from Applebee’s and home! I stayed in a bubble trying to impress my mom and not myself along with being in a crappy relationship for 3-4 years with a guy who’s mother was very disrespectful for the whole relationship and ended that in 2022 and got my own apartment after moving out of his and moving on to my now fiance of 2 years!

6 years later after doubting myself and not attending the community college quitting Applebees hosting , moving out of my abusive household being on my own for 6-7 years now at the age of 25, and working for Walmart for almost 5 years now here in Michigan I ended up taking that leap last year to go back to school because Walmart pays for reimbursements and tuition for two years associates and four years bachelors! Moving on from being controlled , getting my mental state together and going to college for business and looking at all the struggles with my mental health, looking back at how far I started from January 9th to now leaning in my majoring courses I am honestly very proud of myself! You have to be so strong to do this while dealing with ptsd but having the right people you want at your table will make things so much easier! Never would have thought I’d be in this position in my life ! Yes it’s hard right now but once I get that degree it’ll all come into place

Cheers to almost finishing my general education soon and going into my major classes for entrepreneurship! And cheers to getting married soon in 4 months September 28th 🤭🥂

#collegedecision #newlifestyle #abusivehouse #newrelationship #collegestudent #mentalhealthjourney #dealingwithptsd #proudofme

2024/5/11 Edited to

... Read moreMany individuals face challenges similar to mine, whether it involves abusive relationships, mental health struggles, or navigating community college. It's essential to acknowledge and address mental health issues, especially PTSD, to live a fulfilling life. Seeking support from counseling services and establishing a strong support network can significantly enhance one's ability to cope with past trauma. Embarking on an educational journey requires resilience and planning. Students should explore institutions that offer financial aid and flexible learning options, such as online courses or evening classes. Walmart's reimbursement program for tuition is a fantastic example of how employers can support their staff's educational endeavors, making higher education more accessible. In addition, creating a roadmap for personal and academic growth can help eliminate uncertainty. Setting realistic goals and celebrating small victories encourages persistence and motivation. Having a supportive partner or community can also foster a conducive environment for growth, whether in relationships or career aspirations. As I prepare to pursue my degree in entrepreneurship, I look forward to the opportunities ahead and know that each step towards my goals matters. Embracing change while focusing on self-care can lead to a healthier, more empowered life.

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Congratulations

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Girl you’ve lived a whole life at only 25! I’m so happy for you and awesome job for being brave enough to choose you! 🍋❤️

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