Want to attract "good people" into your life? Start here.🫶
✨ Internal energy determines external relationships.
You believe in the energy you spread out...Define the people you attract? 💖
This principle is not only in self-improvement books, but also has a section linked to "tangible" scientific and psychological principles, which is interestingly explained as follows:
🔬 Reflection and attraction based on scientific and psychological principles.
1. The Law of Reflection 🪞
This is a psychological principle that states that the outside world is a mirror that reflects our inner thoughts and feelings, especially self-worth.
When we highly value ourselves (having a good Self-Esteem and Self-Efficacy), we express ourselves with confidence, lay clear boundaries, and choose to reject unworthy things; these actions automatically "filter" people who do not honor or have bad intentions out of their lives (i.e. do not tolerate toxic relationships).
• Attractions: You will attract people who respect your values, honor and treat you well, as you set the standard yourself.
2. The Law of Attraction 🧠
Although it sounds supernatural, in the scientific and psychological perspective, gravity laws work through a principle called "Reticular Activating System."
📚 1. The Law of Reflection 🪞
• Related principles: Self-Esteem (self-esteem) and Self-Efficacy (confidence in self-efficacy)
• Psychological Explanation: Individuals with high Self-Esteem tend to build higher expectations towards the relationship, and express clear Boundaries (boundaries); these will signal to people outside that "I am worthy of the best," which is to "reflect" their inner values away, and attract in people who are prepared to respect that scope.
• Expert / Concept: This concept is linked to relationship psychology theory and personality theory that "our attitude to ourselves determines how others treat us."
2. The Law of Attraction 🧠
Reticular Activating System (RAS) in Brain and Confirmation Bias
RAS is the part in the brainstem, acting like a "filter" that allows us to focus on information important to our goals. When we focus and focus on a constant positive and positive energy relationship (i.e. happy and full-fledged from within), RAS works by "making us notice" opportunities, events, or people that more easily conform to what we focus on (e.g. noticing someone with good energy at a party, or recognizing friendship opportunities).
The working concept of RAS is a neuroscience basis that explains how changing our thinking and focus affects our perception of the external environment.
So...
If we start with a sense of "lack" and look for someone to "fulfill," we will express thirst (Neediness) and insecurity, which often attracts people who are deprived and in need of high dependence, as well. As a result, relationships that are overly dependent and often lead to problems. 💔
Today, reset your energy! Let happiness and euphoria come from within you first, and that full and steady energy will serve as a magnet for "good relationships," whether it's friends, customers, or life partners who have good energy and respect your values, into your life!
💖 Question for Today: How do you start "investing" in your own worth to attract a worthy relationship with you? Let's share it! 👇
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