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... Read more「元彼から手紙が来て嬉しい」って、全然おかしくないと思います。別れたあとって、楽しかった記憶だけじゃなくて「自分は大切にされてたのかな」みたいな不安も出やすいから、手紙の言葉がその穴を埋めてくれる感じがあるんですよね。私も、同棲していた元カレの手紙をたまに読み返して、家にいなかったことへの寂しさや落胆が手書きで綴られてるのを見ると、胸がぎゅっとなるのに同時に安心もします。「これマジでやばい…」って思うくらい、感情が戻ってくる。 ただ、嬉しさの裏で気をつけたいのが“手紙=復縁のサイン”と決めつけないこと。私は一度、期待しすぎて勝手に気持ちが乱れたことがありました。手紙はあくまで「当時の気持ちの記録」なことも多いので、まずは落ち着いて読むのがおすすめです。 私がやってよかった読み方は3つあります。 1つ目は、読むタイミングを決めること。夜中に読むと感情が増幅しやすいので、できれば昼〜夕方に。読み終わったら温かい飲み物を飲む、音楽をかけるなど“現実に戻る動作”もセットにします。 2つ目は、刺さった一文だけメモすること。「愛されてたんだ」と感じた言葉を1行だけ残して、全文は何度も読み返さない。嬉しさをメンタルケアとして使いつつ、依存を防げます。 3つ目は、読み終わった後に自分宛てに短い手紙を書くこと。「今の私はこうしたい」「次はこういう関係がいい」みたいに未来に向けると、過去の手紙が“前に進む材料”になります。 もし読んでいてしんどさが勝つ日が続くなら、封筒に戻して一旦しまうのも立派なセルフケア。嬉しい気持ちは大事にしつつ、今の自分の心が安定する距離感を選んでいいと思います。

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