suddenly I was ‘too much

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... Read moreI remember a time when someone told me they wanted a "natural girl," and so I decided to show up without makeup, embracing my bare face and honest opinions. Initially, it felt empowering to be my true self, shedding all the layers of societal expectations. However, soon enough, I was met with unexpected reactions; I was suddenly described as 'too much.' This experience made me realize how complicated authenticity can be in relationships and social settings. While many encourage natural beauty and openness, they often have an unspoken idea of what that 'natural' should look like—sometimes wanting the appearance but not the personality that comes with it. It’s a tough balance between being true to ourselves and managing others' expectations. From my journey, I learned that embracing who you are—flaws, strengths, opinions, and all—is a continuous process. Wearing no makeup doesn't just mean a lack of cosmetics; it's about confidence in your skin and your voice. Sometimes, that confidence can be intimidating to others who expect conformity rather than individuality. For anyone who feels 'too much' for just being themselves, remember that authenticity isn't a flaw. It's a powerful act of self-love and courage. Surround yourself with people who appreciate your true self and who encourage you to keep showing up as you are, unapologetically.