Momma

The pain of missing your momma, especially a deceased mother, is something incredibly unique and often, isolating. I remember those first few weeks and months after she passed, feeling a constant ache, a deep longing that just wouldn't subside. Every little thing, a familiar scent, a song on the radio, or even just seeing another mother and daughter together, would bring a wave of emotion. It’s a grief that changes you, but also one that teaches you so much about love and resilience. I found that one of the most powerful ways to cope with the 'missing you momma' feeling was to find ways to keep her spirit alive and express my love. For me, writing this poem was a huge release. It allowed me to put all those unspoken feelings, the love, the longing, and even the hope for reunion, onto paper. It’s like a conversation with her, a way to honor her memory in my own words. If you're going through something similar, consider writing a letter, a journal entry, or even a short poem yourself. There's no right or wrong way to express that deep connection. Beyond writing, I've also found comfort in other small rituals. Sometimes, when that 'momma I miss you song' starts playing in my head, I’ll light a candle she loved, or look through old photos, recalling funny stories and cherished moments. It’s not about dwelling on the sadness, but about acknowledging the love that was and still is there. I've also found that talking about her with family and friends, sharing anecdotes, helps to keep her memory vibrant. It allows others who loved her to connect and grieve alongside you, making the journey a little less lonely. Remember, grief isn't a linear process; there will be days when the longing feels overwhelming, and others when you can cherish her memory with a gentle smile. It’s okay to feel all of it. Allowing yourself to grieve, to miss her, and to find your own ways of honoring your deceased mother's legacy is so important. Whether it’s through creative expression like a poem, listening to a special song, or simply holding her memory close, know that your love for your momma lives on. And in that love, there's always a glimmer of hope for a spiritual reunion, a continued connection that transcends time and space.