They were colleagues… I was alone
Freedom… but also a bit more alone
This photo feels a bit special to me.
The 4 of them were colleagues back then.
I was their freelance designer.
Working with them, but not exactly part of the team.
Over time, they became friends.
And I’m thankful we still stay connected and can travel together 💛
Friends like this… not easy to come by.
But I remember…
When I started working on my own,
I was mostly on the outside.
No office.
No colleagues.
Just me, my work, and my clients.
Freedom is nice.
No fixed schedule.
No office politics.
But at the same time…
it can get quite quiet.
No one to casually talk to.
No one to share the small things with.
Most of the time… it’s just you.
U ever feel like…
you’re doing everything on your own,
and there’s no one walking the journey with you?
That kind of quiet…
not many people talk about.
And honestly…
it’s something I didn’t want to stay in long term.
By God’s grace,
I stepped into a digital biz where I’m not building alone.
There’s guidance.
There’s people.
There’s a system to follow.
I’m still learning. Still growing.
But at least now…
I’m not figuring everything out by myself anymore.
Maybe…
freedom doesn’t have to mean being alone.
#sglifejourney #planbthoughts l #l #freelancelife #communitymatters
Starting out as a freelance designer can be incredibly liberating, yet isolating at the same time. I remember those early days vividly—no office, no regular colleagues, just me and my clients. While I cherished the freedom of setting my own hours and avoiding office politics, the silence was often overwhelming. There were moments I felt completely alone, without anyone to share the little daily victories or challenges that come with work. This kind of solitude is rarely talked about but is an important aspect of freelance life. Without a traditional team, those casual hallway conversations or quick brainstorm sessions are missing. You learn to navigate deadlines, problem-solve, and celebrate successes on your own, which can sometimes feel like carrying the whole weight alone. However, my perspective began to shift when I joined a digital business community. Unlike traditional office work, this wasn’t about losing independence but about injecting guidance and connection into my career. Through this community, I found mentors, peers, and a system that provided both structure and support. Online groups, regular coaching sessions, and collaborative projects brought a sense of belonging that made the freelance lifestyle less solitary. Being part of a network means you are not just exchanging emails with clients but engaging with people who understand the highs and lows of working independently. This balance between freedom and community has allowed me to continue growing professionally while feeling supported personally. For fellow freelancers feeling boxed in by solitude, I recommend seeking out communities that share your values and business goals. Whether it’s online groups, local meetups, or professional organizations, connecting with others can revitalize your work and remind you that freedom doesn’t have to mean being alone. The journey can be both independent and together, and embracing this duality has been a huge part of my growth.
werk alone is the best👍