OMG he proposed!!!
If you were excited at this post then this message is for you. MARRIAGE IS NOT THE END GOAL! It’s A goal. But not the end goal. As a woman you have so much more to offer the world than having children and getting married. Your husband is your life partner, NOT your father. If you have to ask permission to do things… Thats a power play. Unhealthy. If you are stuck at home all day because you have children and you are a SAHM.. what are your hobbies for YOU? Who are you outside of wife and mom. Yes you should do things with intention, but you do realize we only get ONE life. YOU deserve to be happy. Stop chasing a ring and start chasing your dreams and ambitions. So many women are scared to be alone or to walk away from things that no longer serve them. Guess what?? That man will be fine with or without you. If you really want marriage… please do not sacrifice yourself. Make sure your partner is of equal value. If things don’t work, look at it as a chapter ended. Don’t sit around being miserable. What about finances? This economy is so bad.. I have heard every excuse!! YOU are worthy of happiness!! Every woman I know who has left something not working for her… has only become stronger!! Please start living for yourself instead of for others xoxo 💋
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