What’s it like to grow up with RAD-and try to heal.

“Hey, im the daughter behind RADically Honest.

I grew up with Reactive Attachment Disorder, and honestly? Believing love. Even letting my own mom in.

Maybe you’ve heard RAD kids are just ‘bad’, or ‘impossible to love’. But here’s the truth: I’m not my diagnosis, and neither are you.

I’ve messed up a lot. I’ve pushed people away who tried to care.

But I’m still here, still healing, and now I’m a mom myself-trying to break the cycle and walk this out with Jesus.

If you’re struggling with trust, anger, shame, or just feel like no one gets it…you’re not alone.

I’m showing up-messy, honest, and hoping you’ll show up too. Healing is real, even if it’s slow. Let’s walk it together.

📖 Ezekiel 36:26- “I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you.”

#RADicallyHonest #RADsurvivor #TraumaHealing #StillHealing #AttachmentDisorder

2025/9/5 Edited to

... Read moreGrowing up with Reactive Attachment Disorder can often be misunderstood, leading to stigma such as being labeled 'bad' or 'impossible to love.' However, RAD is a complex condition rooted in early childhood trauma and attachment difficulties, not a reflection of one's character or worth. Healing from RAD involves a long and sometimes challenging journey of rebuilding trust, learning to regulate emotions, and developing secure relationships. Many who live with RAD experience feelings of anger, shame, and isolation. These emotional barriers can make it difficult to accept love or let others in, including family members. The process of healing often requires patience, self-compassion, and support from trusted individuals or communities. Faith can play a powerful role in this healing journey. For some, spiritual beliefs like those expressed in Ezekiel 36:26 — "I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you" — provide hope and renewal. Embracing a faith-based perspective can encourage resilience and offer comfort during struggles. Breaking the cycle of attachment disorder is especially meaningful when individuals become parents themselves. Working through past trauma and modeling healthy relationships creates a foundation for future generations. If you or someone you know is struggling with RAD, remember that healing is real and possible, even if it happens slowly over time. Connecting with others who understand these struggles, such as communities using hashtags like #RADicallyHonest, #RADsurvivor, #TraumaHealing, and #StillHealing, can offer encouragement and solidarity. Ultimately, RAD does not define a person’s identity or limit their potential for love and connection. With honesty, faith, and ongoing support, the journey toward a new heart and spirit is one of hope, resilience, and transformation.

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