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A view from inside a car looking out at a college building, with text overlays about enrolling in a community college to study Accounting and her husband's support in transportation.
A smiling woman, Rafiat Timothe, sits in a library or office setting, with text about her journey from Nigeria, changing careers to study Accounting, and seeing it as a second chance.
A person, likely Rafiat, sits in a kitchen area, looking at a phone, with text overlays indicating her husband took the picture and she reads whenever she has free time or the kitchen is slow.
A smiling woman, Rafiat, sits across a desk from an advisor, with text overlays about building skills to thrive and her request for an internship or job related to her course.
An interior view of a bank with several tellers at their stations, accompanied by text overlays discussing her husband's support, taking a pay cut, regretting starting over, and challenges as a bank teller.
A framed photo of a large group of people outdoors, with text overlays about an internship ending, getting another as a Tax Accountant intern, and facing challenges as the only Black person in her area.
Four individuals, including Rafiat, stand together holding certificates, with text indicating she was recognized by the state for her academic achievements.
A group of students and an adult stand on a stage holding certificates, with balloons and banners in the background, and text humorously stating 'I am not olodo again'.
Rafiat, in a graduation cap and gown, holds a diploma while standing next to a man, identified as her husband, with text celebrating her graduation with distinction in Associate of Accounting.
A close-up selfie of Rafiat, with a notebook in front of her, accompanied by text about her husband's encouragement, pursuing a bachelor's degree, and experiencing depression after not finding a job.
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Hmmm. Life : part 2

Comparison is a joy killer. As long as there is life, there is hope.

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... Read moreStarting a new chapter in life can be overwhelming, especially when it involves a major career shift and adapting to a new country. From personal experience, I know how daunting it is to leave a familiar job and embrace uncertainty. One of the key lessons learned is that comparison can indeed be a joy killer; focusing on your own path, however winding, brings more peace and motivation. Utilizing available resources is essential. Whether it's academic centers offering tutoring or meeting with advisors who genuinely support your goals, taking advantage of these can make a significant difference. I experienced how professors and mentors who listen and go the extra mile to help you find internships or opportunities shape your confidence and open doors. Having a strong support system—whether family, friends, or community—can ease the burden during tough times. For example, a supportive partner who encourages and helps with logistics can reduce stress and allow you to focus on your ambitions. There are moments of doubt and even depression, especially when progress feels slow or you face barriers like feeling isolated or underestimated. Acknowledging these struggles honestly is part of healing and moving forward. Moreover, recognizing the value of small wins, like microcredentials, internships, or academic achievements, helps build momentum toward long-term goals. Remember, success rarely follows a straight line; resilience is about continuing despite setbacks and trusting in the potential for growth. Holding on to hope means embracing each day as a fresh chance to improve and create a future aligned with your dreams.