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"This story I told you alone."

👩 "Nam In Sook" as an aspiring author.

Give ideas to every 20-year-old girl who is on the way to her life.

🫦 that idea is "self-altruism."

🫦 "self-interest" here is to see the world realistically, accept and choose a path.

That benefits yourself without hurting others.

🫦 women should be selfish in the right place + right place + right time

📌 an interesting example.

- Whether you're a woman or a man. If married wrong, life is a mess, no different.

- Known financial management to be from the age of 20.

- The most investment in a low-growth era.

This is self-improvement.

- The first step of being a millionaire came from collecting a small sum of money.

- Our destiny is not a fixed destiny.

- When you feel like dying, stay alive.

- Keep food full of your own kitchen before you go to help other people's stomachs.

📍 book coordinates. https://s.shopee.co.th/806od9C6cf

📍 copy this code now. BXJ-RFF-UBM

# Improve yourself better # Favorite book # Book review worth reading # Books to read # Books

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