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"Books, don't be a good person who can't talk."

📕 books. Don't be a good person who can't talk.

🍀 when we hear the word "joking," what do we think of? Should we think of "fun nonsense" or "light talk that doesn't affect others?"

🍀 but this book will make you change your mind, talking, not bullshit.

🍀 actually, talking is like,

Magic that helps to change our relationships and work quality, 🍀 because when we have higher skills, these things will follow.

1. The feelings your interlocutor has for you will change completely.

2. Easier to work until shocking, making the results better followed.

3. People who feel that talking is difficult, gradually reduce the number, so do not be proud of the relationship with others.

4. Dare to appear in every place and have the opportunity to get to know interesting people.

5. Life is full of opportunities (Connection)

# Don't be a good person who can't talk # Book review # Book review worth reading # Good books tell # Develop yourself

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... Read moreผมอยากแชร์ประสบการณ์ส่วนตัวหลังจากอ่านหนังสือ "อย่าเป็นคนเก่งที่คุยไม่เป็น" ที่แนะนำแนวคิดใหม่เกี่ยวกับการคุยเล่นซึ่งตอนแรกผมเองก็เคยมองเป็นเรื่องไร้สาระมาก่อน แต่หนังสือเล่มนี้ทำให้ผมเห็นว่า "การคุยเล่น" เป็นทักษะสำคัญที่ช่วยเสริมสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีและนำไปสู่ความสำเร็จในหน้าที่การงานได้อย่างน่าประหลาดใจ จากเนื้อหาที่ได้รับรู้ การคุยเล่นช่วยให้ผู้คนที่เราพูดคุยด้วยเริ่มเปิดใจและรับรู้ความเป็นมิตรของเราได้ชัดเจนขึ้น ทำให้บรรยากาศการทำงานหรือการพบปะในสังคมง่ายและคล่องตัวขึ้นมากกว่าที่คิด นอกจากนี้ยังช่วยลดจำนวนคนที่เรารู้สึกว่าคุยด้วยยาก หรือเขินอาย ซึ่งส่งผลดีต่อภาพลักษณ์และโอกาสทางสังคมของเราด้วย ในยุคสมัยที่การติดต่อสื่อสารผ่านข้อความมากขึ้นอย่างในปัจจุบันนี้ ผู้คนหลายคนยังรู้สึกว่าการพูดคุยทางโทรศัพท์หรือสนทนาโดยไม่มีตัวตนด้านหน้าคู่สนทนาเป็นเรื่องยาก แต่หนังสือแนะนำว่า หากเราพัฒนาทักษะการคุยเล่นอย่างถูกวิธี มันจะกลายเป็นเครื่องมือเวทมนตร์ช่วยลดระยะห่างทางใจ และสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่แน่นแฟ้นแม้ในโลกดิจิทัล ซึ่งผมลองนำไปปรับใช้จริงพบว่าเกิดผลดีอย่างมาก เหล่าคนรอบข้างดูใจกว้างและเปิดรับข้อคิดที่ผมนำเสนอ ผมคิดว่าหนังสือเล่มนี้เหมาะสำหรับคนที่ต้องการพัฒนาทักษะการสื่อสารและสร้างเครือข่ายสัมพันธ์โดยไม่ต้องใช้ความเก่งภาษาแบบเป็นทางการ แต่เน้นความจริงใจและการเชื่อมต่อใจผ่านการคุยเล่นเท่านั้นเอง มันทำให้ผมกล้าที่จะพูดคุยมากขึ้น กล้าที่จะเข้าหาคนแปลกหน้า และเกิดโอกาสทางสังคมใหม่ ๆ ที่ผมไม่เคยคิดว่าจะเป็นไปได้มาก่อน ดังนั้นถ้าคุณกำลังมองหาวิธีพัฒนาตัวเองโดยเริ่มจากทักษะง่าย ๆ อย่างการคุยเล่น หนังสือ "อย่าเป็นคนเก่งที่คุยไม่เป็น" เป็นตัวเลือกที่ไม่ควรพลาดอย่างยิ่ง

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