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1. Damn with information, not emotion.

Because speaking with clear evidence will make the listener feel that we really want to help him, not just drain like a high-pressure water gun that fires.

2. Damn in the face, not gossip behind the back

If you want people to change, you have to be honest with good intentions, not complain to others and hope they know themselves, which will never work.

3. Damn behavior, not identity.

Instead of saying you were stupid, turning it into something she was doing was probably not prudent because everyone was more prepared for behavior than being labeled.

4. Damn with a sincere tone. Not sarcastic.

People who are blamed can only open up if they know that we speak from

Good intentions, not sarcastic words to prick you into feelings of inferiority.

5. Damn when he is calm, not when we are boiling

Because the words of anger are often too strong and listening.

If you wait a little longer, it will work many times more.

6. Damn with the eyes of hope, not the eyes of contempt

People who know they still have a chance to develop faster.

Someone who feels like I'm not worth anyone hoping for anymore.

7. Damn and stay. Not talking and disappear.

If we finish cursing and walk away, the feeling of being dumped will consume the other person, but if we curse and stay as a friend, he will dare to fight back.

8. Damn like a person who used to miss. Not a person who is never wrong.

When we say that we ourselves have also made mistakes

It will open the heart door faster than always being above him.

9. Curse the light, not the shadows in your heart.

Good words will make people feel bright in their hearts, even if they hurt when they listen.

But do not feel repeatedly smashed to sink the ground.

10. Damn with short words but listen and feel strong

Maybe don't say it long. Just can't really say it like this.

With a serious tone, it's enough for someone to think all night.

11. Damn ready to offer a solution. Not just throw the blame.

Blame and silence is leaving trouble, but if you talk and help,

Think of a solution. That's the real team.

12. Damn from the rhythm that we can handle ourselves

Don't curse when we're still emotional, because it becomes more of a vent than a guide. When we're calm, the audience will open up.

13. Always cursing with his value.

When talking hard, don't forget to insert the word We believe that you are better because people who know that they are still worth will not escape the truth.

14. Damn once, finish, do not dig repeatedly back and forth

No one wants to be reminded of the same thing repeatedly. Be clear.

And then give him a chance to show that he can change.

15. Damn and ready to listen, not speak unilaterally

A good damn must have room for him to explain. Because when he speaks,

It will reduce the resistance and turn it into a listening force.

16. Damn in secret, do not abuse in the notice

Because no one wants to be humiliated if they speak.

Personally, even if it hurts, it will be remembered that you did it because of good hopes.

17. Damn to think, not to hurt

Every diatribe should be based on whether we want him to.

I don't think. We want him to remember that we've been stepped on.

18. Curse with love, not with anger

Words that leave love. Although it sounds strong, it will understand.

Easy and changing people's lives more than we always thought.

# Damn well

# Strong words but hidden love

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