Look at life as a flower

The book Think Simple explains that this is not just a personal habit, but a result of each person's different "environment response system."

Thomas Boyce's research divided people into two large groups:

1. Dandelion Man

Dandelion is a healthy plant, growing even in inhospitable environments.

So these people are very durable, adaptable, good at dealing with pressure, fast and do not get caught up in easy failures.

However, this strength can also be a double-edged sword, because it can sometimes cause small details in the relationships, health, or feelings of those around you to be overlooked.

What Dandelion humans should practice is "subtlety," listening to others more; and paying attention to small signs that may be overlooked.

2. Orchid Man

Orchid flowers need a suitable environment and close care to grow well.

This group of people are sensitive, perceive the feelings of others well, are creative, and highly compassionate. When in the right environment, they can grow and stand out a lot.

But at the same time, they are more easily affected by stress and events in an abusive environment.

The important thing for orchid humans is therefore not to be as strong as Dandelion, but to provide an environment conducive to growth, to have safe spaces, to have trusted people, and to gradually practice facing challenges on a copeable level.

No flower is better than the other.

If you are a human Dandelion, learn to embrace and cherish those around you.

If you are an orchid man. Don't blame yourself for being sensitive, but put yourself in the right environment to grow up.

Because in the end, whether it's dandelions or orchids, they have their own value and can blossom when they get what suits their nature.

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