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October theory 🛋️

What does this theory mention?

1. Some people may come in. Some people may walk out.

Unclear relationships may begin to become clearer, some return to life, while others end up to show who is fit to stay in our lives.

2. Unexpected changes occurred.

It can be a job change, a major decision, a relocation, a new start, or an event that causes us to look at life in a different light.

3. Start to know yourself more

What is acceptable may no longer be what we want, we may start to set boundaries for ourselves, stop running after someone, or decide what we were afraid of.

4. It is the time of the closure of the old chapter.

As the end of the year approached, many began to assess what made themselves happy, what made them tired, and what they didn't want to carry on next year.# Theory # October theory✨ suitable for: develop yourself

10/15 Edited to

... Read moreOctober Theory หรือทฤษฎีตุลาคม เป็นแนวคิดที่ให้เราใช้เดือนตุลาคมเป็นช่วงเวลาสำคัญสำหรับการทบทวนชีวิตและเตรียมพร้อมกับการเปลี่ยนแปลงใหม่ ๆ ประสบการณ์ส่วนตัวพบว่า เดือนตุลาคมมักเป็นจุดเริ่มต้นของการวางแผนและตัดสินใจสิ่งใหม่ ๆ ไม่ว่าจะเป็นการเปลี่ยนแปลงความสัมพันธ์ที่ไม่ชัดเจน เช่น หาคนที่เหมาะสมและควรอยู่ในชีวิต หรือการปล่อยวางจากคนหรือสิ่งที่ไม่ดีต่อเรา เพื่อสร้างพื้นที่ให้กับสิ่งดี ๆ ที่จะเข้ามาในอนาคต สิ่งที่น่าสนใจตามทฤษฎีนี้คือการให้โอกาสตัวเองได้เริ่มต้นใหม่ก่อนปีใหม่อย่างจริงจัง ไม่ต้องรอให้ถึงวันที่ 1 มกราคม ทฤษฎียังส่งเสริมให้ทุกคนกล้าตัดสินใจ หันกลับมาดูแลตัวเองและตั้งขอบเขตเกี่ยวกับสิ่งที่ยอมรับได้ในชีวิต เหมือนเราได้หยุดพักและประเมินชีวิต ว่าจุดไหนที่ควรเปลี่ยน แค่ลองทำสิ่งเล็ก ๆ ในเดือนตุลาคมแล้วสังเกตการเปลี่ยนแปลงที่จะเกิดขึ้นจนถึงสิ้นปี สำหรับใครที่รู้สึกว่าตัวเองติดกับดักของอดีต หรือวิธีคิดซ้ำ ๆ ทฤษฎีตุลาคมก็เป็นเหมือนแรงผลักดันให้ปล่อยวางสิ่งเหล่านั้น เปิดใจยอมรับบทเรียน และโฟกัสที่การเติบโตของตัวเองโดยไม่ยึดติดกับอดีต ในภาพรวม เดือนตุลาคมจึงเป็นจุดเวลาที่เหมาะสำหรับการปรับเปลี่ยนชีวิตในหลากหลายด้าน ทำให้เรารู้ตัวเองมากขึ้น เรียนรู้ที่จะเลือกสิ่งที่เหมาะสม ให้ความสำคัญกับความสุขและสุขภาพจิตใจ เพื่อก้าวไปสู่ปีใหม่ด้วยพลังและความหวังใหม่ ๆ ลองใช้ October Theory กับชีวิตคุณดู อาจจะทำให้เดือนตุลาคมเปลี่ยนเป็นเดือนแห่งแรงบันดาลใจและการเปลี่ยนแปลงที่ดีอย่างที่ไม่เคยคาดคิดมาก่อน

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