Automatically translated.View original post

How to train your heart to believe that even if you break up, you can stay. 💪🏻

2025/8/9 Edited to

... Read moreเมื่อความรักเดินทางมาถึงจุดสิ้นสุดและคุณต้องเผชิญกับการเลิกกัน การฝึกใจให้เชื่อมั่นว่าตัวเองสามารถอยู่ได้แม้ไม่มีคู่เป็นสิ่งสำคัญที่จะช่วยให้ฟื้นฟูจิตใจอย่างรวดเร็วและเข้มแข็งขึ้น เทคนิคต่างๆ เช่น การยอมรับความรู้สึกที่เกิดขึ้นโดยไม่ปฏิเสธตัวเอง การหาโอกาสทำกิจกรรมใหม่ๆ เพื่อสร้างความสุขแทนที่ความรู้สึกเศร้า และการเสริมสร้างความรักตัวเอง (self-love) ล้วนเป็นกุญแจหลักที่ช่วยให้คุณผ่านช่วงเวลานี้ยากไปได้อย่างมั่นคง นอกจากนี้ การพูดคุยกับที่ปรึกษาความรักหรือเพื่อนสนิทสามารถช่วยให้มุมมองเกี่ยวกับการเลิกกันเปลี่ยนไปในทางที่ดีขึ้น ความเข้าใจว่าการอยู่คนเดียวไม่ได้แปลว่าโดดเดี่ยว แต่คือโอกาสที่จะเติมเต็มตัวเองและเตรียมพร้อมสำหรับความสัมพันธ์ที่สุขภาพดีในอนาคต เป็นสิ่งจำเป็นอีกด้วย ถ้าคุณกำลังมองหาแรงบันดาลใจและแนะนำวิธีสร้างสกิลความสัมพันธ์ที่แข็งแรง ไม่ว่าจะเป็นการตั้งเป้าหมายในการพัฒนาตัวเอง การเรียนรู้วิธีจัดการอารมณ์ และการฝึกฝนความมั่นใจในตัวเอง บทความนี้จะเป็นตัวช่วยที่มีประโยชน์สำหรับทุกคนที่ต้องการสร้างชีวิตใหม่หลังจากการเลิกกัน #เลิกกับแฟน #อยู่คนเดียว #รักตัวเอง #ที่ปรึกษาความรัก #ครูกริลสร้างสกิลความสัมพันธ์

Related posts

BECOME UNRECOGNIZABLE IN 6 MONTHS! ✨ HERES HOW:
Alright, babe, let’s cut the crap—you want to glow up, level up, and leave people speechless six months from now. Whether it's that ex who didn’t appreciate you, or just because you’re tired of the old version of yourself, here’s the plan to make them all do a double take. 💅 Let’s get real—thi
Lushie Club 💖

Lushie Club 💖

6141 likes

A person's sweaty midsection is shown with text overlay stating, "HERE'S HOW -> My waist is getting smaller everyday," indicating progress in waist reduction.
An infographic illustrates six exercises for a smaller waist: Side Plank (40 reps), Leg Raise (40 reps), Bicycle Crunch (30 reps), Sit-ups (30 reps), Spider Plank (50 reps), and Russian Twist (50 reps), to be repeated twice with a 2-minute break.
A collage of low-calorie food items is displayed, including egg whites, air-popped popcorn, low-fat cottage cheese, fruits, vegetables, rice cakes, sugar-free jelly, oats, gyoza, and light cheese products, with their respective calorie counts.
How To Get A Slim Waist💞
Getting a smaller waist has been a fitness goal of women going back many, many years! It's mostly for aesthetic reasons, women simply want that nice hourglass figure that so many popular celebrities have. Everyone has their own reasons for wanting to achieve certain fitness goals, like a smalle
Angelina

Angelina

3153 likes

How to Start Enjoying Hard Things 🧘🏽‍♀️🎧🎀✨
💌 Don’t forget to save this for later Follow for more like this 💖🪞🌸💫✨🫧 #healthygirl #healthygirlsummer #pilatesprincess #eveningroutine
Jasmine Hughes 🎀

Jasmine Hughes 🎀

1265 likes

How to potty train in 3 Days
👋Hi parents! I just wanted to share a few tips and tricks to potty train your child in just 3️⃣ days! Make sure you are not busy for these 3 days because this takes some serious 🫡DEDICATION. Your child will have some accidents and thats okay. No need to get 😡mad because they are learning and someti
Tipsbyliyah

Tipsbyliyah

1635 likes

A woman in athletic wear stands in a locker room, surrounded by various foods and supplements like steak, salmon, eggs, tofu, protein chips, Greek yogurt, and tart cherry juice, illustrating foods for muscle growth and glute development.
Text highlights protein as the building block for glute gains, listing lean meats, fish, plant-based proteins, and protein powders. Images show steak, a fried egg, tofu cubes, and salmon with lemon slices.
Text emphasizes carbohydrates as fuel for workouts, recommending complex carbs like sweet potatoes, oats, brown rice, and fruits. Partial images include white rice, a loaf of bread, and a bag of protein chips.
Foods for Muscle Growth: Get That Big, Plump Booty
If you’re serious about growing your glutes, you already know that your workouts need to be on point. But did you know that what you eat is just as important as those heavy hip thrusts? Building a bigger, rounder booty isn’t only about spending hours in the gym doing squats and lunges – it’s ab
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

4123 likes

How to Start Being Consistent (In 2025) 🧘🏼‍♀️🎧🎀✨
💌 Don’t forget to save this for later Follow for more like this 💖🪞🌸💫✨🫧 #healthygirl #healthygirlsummer #pilatesprincess #eveningroutine
Jasmine Hughes 🎀

Jasmine Hughes 🎀

22.2K likes

A woman performs a hip thrust exercise with a kettlebell, illustrating a leg day setup. The image has text overlays 'Leg Day SET UP Swipe>>' and peach emojis.
Text outlining how to plan and structure a leg workout, focusing on compound leg exercises like squats, deadlifts, and lunges for overall strength and muscle.
Text explaining the importance of incorporating varied movement patterns in leg workouts, including extension, flexion, hip hinges, and plantarflexion exercises.
How to Buil a Solid Leg Day for Toned Legs & BIG 🍑
let's talk about leg day – your favorite day of the week no doubt! As someone who's dealt with back injuries, building strong legs through powerful squats and deadlifts not only feels amazing but also keeps me lean and strong. I know not everyone looks forward to leg day, but trust me, it&#
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

147 likes

To break up with regret… start here 📖
What are you currently reading? 📚 This chapter really sat with me… especially the part about breaking up with regret. I’m learning that healing isn’t about pretending it didn’t happen… it’s about facing it, releasing it, and letting God restore what was broken. This one hit deeper than I
Becoming Through Books

Becoming Through Books

86 likes

HOW TO GET OVER A BREAKUP - NO BS💔
𝐀𝐍 𝐔𝐋𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐀𝐓𝐄 𝐆𝐔𝐈𝐃𝐄 𝐓𝐎 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐋 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝐀𝐅𝐓𝐄𝐑 𝐀 𝐁𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐊𝐔𝐏! ❤️‍🩹 Baby girl, if you are going through a breakup, please read this guide carefully & i promise you, you will feel better!🥹 If someone you know is going through a breakup, please share this post with them♥ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐛𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐤 & 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐭𝐞
Klementina

Klementina

1790 likes

A woman in a dark bikini stands on a sandy beach with ocean waves in the background. The image has a text overlay that reads "How to Quickly Lose BODY FAT" in blue and yellow, with "Lemon8 @chalie_baker" at the bottom.
Text outlines Step 1: How to Judge Your Body Fat Percentage. It explains that body fat percentage is a better indicator than scale weight and lists methods like DEXA Scan, InBody Scan/BIA Devices, Skinfold Calipers, and Visual Comparison Charts for estimation.
A table displays healthy body fat ranges for men and women across categories like Essential Fat, Athletes, Fitness, Acceptable/Average, and Obese. Below, text explains that a healthy fat loss rate is 1-2 pounds per week, or 1-2% body fat reduction per month.
How to Lose Body Fat Fast (Without Losing Ur Mind)
So, you want to lose body fat fast but in a way that doesn’t wreck your hormones, binge your fridge, or make you scared of bread? Good. Because the truth is, fat loss is just biology playing dress-up as discipline—and once you understand the rules of the body, you can make it work with you, not aga
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

2025 likes

How to Eat for Defined ABs + Different Workouts
Your kitchen isn't just for cooking; it's your secret weapon in the battle for abs. 🍋Nutritious, Whole Foods: Filling your diet with fruits, veggies, whole grains, healthy fats, and high-protein items is crucial. These foods are packed with essential nutrients✅, antioxidants✅, and fi
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

1727 likes

🍰 vs. 🥬: What Really Matters for Weight Loss?
Let’s be real — when you first start caring about your health, the internet gets super confusing. One minute it’s, “Eat clean to get lean!” and the next it’s, “Girl, just be in a calorie deficit and eat whatever you want!” So, what actually matters more when it comes to losing weight: WHAT
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

2418 likes

- How to Get Your Attention Span Back🫧📖💭🌿🕰️
I swear my attention span is nonexistent. I can’t focus for more than two seconds, I have no patience, and I catch myself doomscrolling before I even realize I picked up my phone. 🧠⏳ 🧠⏳ 🧠⏳ 🧠⏳ 🧠⏳ 🧠⏳ 🧠⏳ • If you find yourself doomscrolling: Do nothing. 🫥 Wait 15 seconds until you get bored. T
Brookie ❤︎︎☘︎︎

Brookie ❤︎︎☘︎︎

1927 likes

The Just 3 Rule for Mental Health That Sticks 💭❤️🧠✨
Let me be sooo real with you… Getting fit is hard. Staying consistent? Way harder. It’s not about having the “perfect” body or that one magical workout. It’s about your brain. Your mood. Your mindset. Because honestly? If your mental health is trash, your discipline will be too. And that’s exactly
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

633 likes

How to Exit Your Lazy Girl Era ➡️ read this
7 Rare Insights about Productivity: 1️⃣Are there certain beliefs or reasons that are behind the bad habits? Is there something deeper — a fear, an event, or a limiting belief — that is causing you to hold on to something that is bad for you? You don’t eliminate a bad habit, you replace it.
Olivia Jones

Olivia Jones

542 likes

How to get SNATCHED and stay like that!🫶🏼
I'm going to break down what every single slide does for you: 🏃🏻‍♀️10k steps is going to increase your daily expenditure which will give you just a little more room to enjoy foods you love! It also promotoes fat loss! It doesn't matter how you get your steps done, just enjot the process!
Sivi

Sivi

497 likes

A library with wooden shelves filled with books and wooden tables, featuring the title '3 ways to gain motivation with lifelight SWIPE' and 'lemon8 @chloe.lifelight'.
A phone screen displays a chat with reflection prompts like 'Why am I doing this?' and 'What do I want to achieve?'. Text on the right encourages using prompts to find your 'why' for studying.
A phone screen shows a to-do list with study tasks like 'write a new term paper' and 'revise the report'. Text on the right suggests breaking goals into smaller, manageable steps using journal prompts.
How to gain study motivation✨🌱
Staying motivated while studying can be tough, but it’s all about understanding what drives you and taking small, intentional steps. Here are three simple ways to spark motivation and keep going—even on days when studying feels bored or impossible! 🔍 Find Your "Why" Before you start, as
Chloe💕

Chloe💕

28 likes

how to train a photographer (for shy girls) 🫶
#instagram #photos #photo #photography #pictureideas #pics #pose #camera #digitalcamera #pic
lauren

lauren

310 likes

How I like to Annotate
It can be different depending on the book genre. I also don’t always annotate. I start the book first then see if I think it’s worth spending the time to. 🖤 #annotatingbooks #annotatedbooks #bookwormsoflemon8 #bookish #bookannotations
🌛𝔰𝔞𝔪🌜

🌛𝔰𝔞𝔪🌜

202 likes

The image displays the title 'How to Get Things Done Even When You Don't Feel Like It' in bold black text on yellow highlighted bars against a light background.
A graph illustrates motivation as a fluctuating red line and habits as a steadily increasing green line, emphasizing focusing on systems and habits over fickle motivation.
Text advises to 'Start small' with examples like 1 push-up. A diagram shows 'THE ACTIVATION ENERGY OF NEW HABITS,' illustrating less energy needed for smaller habits.
How to Get Things Done When You Don’t Feel Like It
Let’s be real—there are days when motivation is nowhere to be found. When your body is tired, your mind is scattered, and your heart just isn’t in it. But life doesn’t always wait for inspiration to strike. Sometimes, the breakthrough comes after the action. Here’s how I push through on those he
Antiya

Antiya

514 likes

The title image for an article on 'How to Stay In Control (No Matter What Happens),' featuring a black and white illustration of a person meditating in a cross-legged pose.
Text emphasizing that control means mastering oneself, not others, and that losing control often stems from one's own thoughts, posture, and words.
Text titled 'Lose Your Temper, Lose Your Power,' explaining how anger diminishes control and suggesting a reminder: 'My reaction is my power- and I'm not giving it away.'
How To Stay In Control
#motivation #inspiration
Niquelocs

Niquelocs

1124 likes

How I Squeeze 🍋 In Time for Learning Anywhere ✨
How I Study on the Go as a Busy Student ✨📚🧠 Flashcards & One-Page Summaries = lifesavers! Life gets so hectic sometimes (hello back-to-back classes + errands), but I’ve figured out a few study hacks that help me stay on top of things even when I’m not at my desk! Here’s what works for me
Stella Studies

Stella Studies

198 likes

15 LIES ABOUT WORK, MONEY & FREEDOM YOU STILL BELIEVE(MODERN “SLAVERY”)
✨️You were taught how to work...but not how to build freedom ✨️ Most people are not stuck… they’re just following beliefs they never questioned. You were taught how to work. But nobody taught you how to build freedom. So you: Work harder Get more tired Stay in the same place And cal
Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

24 likes

How to Change Your Relationship With Food! 💭🍔🍕🍪
Let’s Talk About Food Noise: What It Is, Why It Happens, and How We Can Start Quieting It—Together Okay, let’s just be real: food noise is something so many people deal with, and not enough people are talking about it in a way that’s honest, helpful, and grounded in science. That’s why I want
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

364 likes

we takin a break..
#Lemon8Diary I called him and I was trying to tell him this but I was crying so he told me to calm down nd take deep breaths nd text him bc he couldn't understand a word I was saying so I did nd I feel awful nd I miss him but I got to do what's best for me..
Genesis🎀🎀

Genesis🎀🎀

5981 likes

Fast to break the power of Witchcraft
Fasting is important to many Christians because it aligns with biblical teachings and practices, fostering a closer relationship with God. It serves as a form of sacrifice and self-discipline, echoing the 40-day fast Jesus undertook in the wilderness as described in the Gospels. This period of fast
Pray with me

Pray with me

1099 likes

How to Reinvent Yourself 🌿 🔑ℹ️👇
They say people can’t change — but that’s a lie told by those too scared to try. The truth? Everyone has the power to flip their story. Most people just choose not to. Don’t let that be you. If you’re breathing, you’re capable of more. But wanting change and making it happen? Two different thing
RoadToRiches

RoadToRiches

13 likes

Two dogs, Ace and Mazie, look up at their owner, illustrating the 'Eyes on Me' command. The image includes text about why and how to train dogs to look at their owner, set against a grassy background with fallen leaves.
Two dogs, Ace and Mazie, sit on concrete, looking up intently at their owner, demonstrating the 'look at me' command. Their leashes are visible near the owner's feet.
Two dogs, Ace and Mazie, sit among fallen leaves, looking up at their owner, showcasing the 'look at me' command. The owner's feet are visible at the bottom of the frame.
Why do I train my dogs to “LOOK AT ME”? 👁️
Whenever we’re outside, I like to do quick check-ins with Ace and Mazie by asking them to look at me. It’s one of the most basic commands they’ve learned, and it’s essential for any dog when you’re out and about. Teaching this command helps keep them safe, focused, and responsive, even in distracti
Ace + Mazie

Ace + Mazie

79 likes

books that have my heart <3
the books I couldn’t read passively… the ones that made me stop, underline profusely, and stare at the wall for a while #bookrecs #litfic #books #booksthatchangedmylife #booksthatmakeyouthink
@saltyymelody

@saltyymelody

89 likes

A plush bunny lies on a bed with floral bedding, next to a vintage mirror. The image is overlaid with the bold text 'HOW TO BE SAFE AROUND MEN' and two blue exclamation marks, introducing the article's topic.
A phone screen displays search results for 'google voice app', with a green arrow pointing to the Google Voice app icon, illustrating how to obtain a fake phone number.
A collection of safety accessories including a personal alarm, pepper spray, a car escape tool, and an AirTag, with the text 'Safety accessories', as recommended for personal protection.
How to be safe around men?
1️⃣ Don’t give men your real name! (If you’re uncomfy) - Pick a fake name - If they ask your number, you can say no! If you’re scared then download Google voice app, use a fake number if they’re forceful with having yours. —————————————————————————————-2️⃣ Carry safety protection accessories
c.doug ♡

c.doug ♡

714 likes

✨ Packages as a Creator w/ 1k & How to Get Them ✨
Part 5 is here and 6 is in session so let’s get through this month’s PR Haul & Unboxing’s for my Beauty Pages! I’ll be sharing, swatching, and playing with these soon so stay tuned! 🛍 IPSY & Boxycharm: Gifted / No Obligations, One Post Quarterly Minimum No Minimum Followers I’m no
Desiree Singh

Desiree Singh

265 likes

How to Study for Hours Without Feeling Exhausted
If you’ve ever found yourself staring at your notes for hours but barely absorbing anything, you’re not alone. I used to believe that the longer I studied, the better my results would be. But over time, I realized that studying for long hours without breaks wasn’t making me more productive—it was j
river

river

17 likes

A person in a fur coat and patterned stockings sits by a fireplace, with text overlay 'HOW TO ACHIEVE YOUR DREAM LIFE'. The image sets a luxurious, aspirational tone for the article.
This image outlines steps for achieving a dream life, including defining dreams, creating a 'day in the life' story, breaking down goals, and establishing a daily schedule.
The image prompts readers to 'Take control of your life and create your dream self' by asking questions about appearance, behavior, hobbies, profession, and well-being, with three circular photos of women.
How To Achieve Your Dream Life🖤
You’re a doer, an innovator, a game-changer with unique passions and big dreams. That’s great! Except for when the thought of achieving your goals feels totally overwhelming. But no worries, you’ve got this. No matter how daunting your dreams feel, nothing is too big to achieve. Use these simple ti
Angelina

Angelina

73 likes

Can’t believe people are paying crazy money for the basics 😂
Everything you need is on the Tube!!! Beware of those that profit from u but can never show you ONE TRADING strategy 😂😂🤣. #futures #trading #moneymindset #daytrader #investing
Miah Patterson

Miah Patterson

115 likes

A side profile of a person's head with a visible brain, highlighting the Reticular Activating System (RAS) in red. The image illustrates how to manipulate the RAS to manifest desires quickly, aligning with the article's focus on brain-based manifestation techniques.
Train Your Brain to Manifest Faster Than Ever
6 Steps to Manipulate the RAS: Want to rewire your brain to attract what you want faster? Here's how to shift your Reticular Activating System (RAS) into manifestation mode: 1. Set a Clear Intention – Know exactly what you want. Specificity programs the RAS. 2. Visualize Daily – Pictur
She-She

She-She

70 likes

Don’t Train to look like someone else!
Reminder: You can train and eat like someone but still look different !🤍 First lemme say this , working out doesn’t necessarily change your body’s anatomy, it doesn’t change your bone structure or add more hips to you or reconstruct. Everyone’s body responds differently to exercise and nutri
F R A N N Y 🌼

F R A N N Y 🌼

48 likes

How to Create A Vision Board (for 2025) 🧘🏼‍♀️🎧🎀✨
💌 Don’t forget to save this for later Follow for more like this 💖🪞🌸💫✨🫧 #healthygirl #healthygirlsummer #pilatesprincess #eveningroutine
Jasmine Hughes 🎀

Jasmine Hughes 🎀

200 likes

How to build a mind no one can break
#mindatpeace #improveyourmindset #successtips #selfcare Additional Tips:
Eletia Brown-Cl

Eletia Brown-Cl

30 likes

Train Together! Even With Different Fitness Goals🍑
Working out with a partner is such a game-changer. It keeps you motivated, makes workouts more fun, and holds you accountable. But what if your gym partner has totally different goals? What if one of you wants to get shredded while the other just wants to stay toned? Or one of you is six inches tal
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

50 likes

How to build an Unbreakable 💎 mind 🧠
Lastly 10. DETACH FROM OUTCOMES Focus on effort, not results. A strong mind thrives 💯 even when things don’t go your way, it’s still going your way. 😉 #takebackyourpower #npdsurvivor #boundariesarebeautiful #protectyourenergy #insightful
The Rare One Rav 💎

The Rare One Rav 💎

184 likes

How to Use Affirmations to Train Your Mind 🧠
Using affirmations to train your mind involves incorporating positive and empowering statements into your daily routine to help shift your mindset, build self-confidence, and reinforce a positive self-image. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to effectively use affirmations, swipe 👉🏻 to learn h
mindofieva

mindofieva

63 likes

Everyone calls this “manifestation.”
Everyone calls this “manifestation.” But what it really is… is neural conditioning. Your brain is constantly scanning for proof of who you believe you are. Your nervous system decides what you can hold. Your identity sets the ceiling for your income. So if money still feels like pressur
Ascention Parfums

Ascention Parfums

2 likes

How to LOCK IN In 2026 (Stop Playing Games) 🧘🏽‍♀️🎧🎀✨
💌 Don’t forget to save this for later Follow for more like this 💖🪞🌸💫✨🫧 #healthygirl #healthygirlsummer #pilatesprincess #eveningroutine
Jasmine Hughes 🎀

Jasmine Hughes 🎀

75 likes

Two puppies, one black and tan and one light brown, sit on a wooden floor. The image features the question 'HOW DO I HOUSE TRAIN MY PUPPY?' with a bone emoji, relating to the article's topic of puppy house training tips.
How to house train your puppy… 🦴
House training is crucial when welcoming a new dog into your home. Here are the five tips for successfully housetraining a dog of any age: 1. Recognize Triggers: Be aware of the general triggers for pottying such as waking up, drinking water, eating, or finishing play sessions. Dogs that are sni
myfavpins

myfavpins

1241 likes

📖How to Start a Bible Study Routine📖
Struggling to stay consistent with Bible study? BELIEVE ME!!! I’ve been there! Here are simple tips that helped me to build my Bible time into my daily life!✨ It’s not about perfection, it’s all about connection. 💛 #BibleStudyTips #QuietTimeWithGod #Lemon8Faith #lemon8contest #su
Alexa

Alexa

285 likes

How To Train Through Injury
You gotta find a way to still get the work in, even if you’re dealing with an injury—it’s no excuse. Unless it’s serious, you need to find a way to train other parts so that when you come back, you’re not that far behind and can catch up quickly. The last thing you can afford to do is get comfor
Daree Ajibade

Daree Ajibade

30 likes

See more