There’s a kind of grief that comes from not just the losses themselves, but from feeling unheard through all of it. 10 years of miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies, years of asking for help, answers, intervention, only to be dismissed or delayed, changes you. Now at 33, being told IVF is the only path forward doesn’t feel like a solution as much as it feels like the result of being failed for far too long. It’s exhausting to wonder how different things might have been if someone had listened sooner. #ectopicpregnancysurvivor #infertility #ivf