Grow up and know that no one should lend money because of pity
Have you ever been... lent money because of "pity," but in the end we were a difficult person, 😢 yes, because we were living
Kindness is not wrong.
But not having boundaries... can hurt us repeatedly.
💸 expensive lesson to tell
- The man who borrowed us doesn't mean he appreciates the help.
- "Appreciation" often disappears after the money.
- We could lose money and relationships, yeah, because it's an ex-boyfriend, which is now out of our lives without a refund.
💡 Remember that.
Denial = protecting yourself
We don't have to save everyone, especially if it gets yourself in trouble.
✔️ if you really want to help, the amount of "lost doesn't affect life."
✔️ or help in other ways, such as giving advice instead of giving money.
❤️ Be kind, but don't forget to be kind to yourself first.
# Grow up and know thatDon't let others borrow money easily.