Men deserve to feel safe too

It goes both ways

2025/6/14 Edited to

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I know what that's like when we iove we I've unconditionally not with conditions I'm deeply inlove with a man whom I hurt because I wasn't healed I hope we will reunite but for now I think it's a lesson and a hard one at that because I may ha e ruined the only true connection I ever needed in my life but that's something I have to live with and that is something I truly regret

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