My Loc Journey Thus Far 🌸

A journey it has been. A journey of patience, self love & trusting the process.

Prior to starting my locs, I went back and forth with myself for years. The excuse: “let me just grow my natural hair a little bit longer”. 🫠 Funny thing is, it doesn’t matter how long your hair is. That shrinkage is going to SHRINK. But all that means is you have HEALTHY hair. 🥹

I’m proud of myself for finally starting this journey. For trusting myself. Trusting my hair & learning to love me in ALL phases.

Loc journeys are so deep, beautiful & powerful. So if you’re thinking of doing it… JUST DO IT. 🫡 this is your sign. ❤️

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2024/12/12 Edited to

... Read moreHitting the 9-month mark on my loc journey has been a whirlwind of emotions and learning! Looking back from where I started, with my natural hair flourishing, to seeing my locs grow and define themselves has been truly amazing. When I first considered starting, I went back and forth for ages, wondering if my hair was ‘long enough’ or if I was ready for such a commitment. But honestly, once you commit, you realize length doesn't matter as much as health and patience. That initial ‘shrinkage’ phase? It's absolutely real! But it’s a beautiful sign of healthy, coiling hair beginning its transformation, making way for those beautiful locs. One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned in these first nine months is embracing the 'ugly' phases. There are days when my short, curly locs might feel a bit frizzy or unkempt, especially during the budding stage where they start to form. But I've learned to see the beauty in every stage, trusting the process and allowing my hair to do its thing naturally. Regular washing, usually every 2-3 weeks, with a clarifying shampoo and then a moisturizing one, has been crucial for keeping my scalp clean and my locs hydrated. I always follow up with a light leave-in conditioner and a natural oil like jojoba or almond oil to seal in moisture, focusing on the ends. Retwisting has been another key part of my routine, but I try not to overdo it to avoid thinning and tension. Every 4-6 weeks seems to be the sweet spot for me, allowing my roots to grow out a bit without causing too much tension. Sometimes I even stretch it to 8 weeks if I’m feeling lazy or my hair is doing well. For styling, I've experimented with a few simple looks that work well for early locs. In the earlier months, I often wore my locs down or in a simple half-up, half-down style, which kept them out of my face. As they've gained a little more length, I've loved trying out styles like locs pulled up into a high puff or even experimenting with locs styled in two buns for a fun, playful look that feels more put-together. These simple styles are a great way to manage your locs while they mature and prevent daily manipulation. Beyond the hair, this journey is deeply personal and has been a profound lesson in self-love. It's about letting go of societal expectations, accepting your hair as it is, and finding confidence in your authentic self. There will be days you question it, and days you feel absolutely beautiful. Both are part of the process. If you’re at 9 months, celebrate your progress and keep going! If you’re thinking about starting, I truly believe this is your sign to take the leap. The growth, both physically and emotionally, is incredibly rewarding, and you’ll discover so much about yourself along the way. Remember, every loc journey is unique, so listen to your hair, enjoy every single step, and cherish the transformation!