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He respects the decision, but he still can't.

He understands, but he still regrets it.

He wasn't angry that the other side walked away.

He even knows why the other side went.

Know how long the other person has regretted the same story.

Knowing that the other side tried to stay several times later.

He understands every reason.

But understanding doesn't make him feel free to leave.

Because to know why the other side left,

He still feels guilty.

# Leave

# miss

# Understand but hurt

# Same story

# Overtime feeling

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