How I feel most of the time...
I feel very insecure about what other people think of me. If someone calls me pretty, I'm like "ew no" or ugly ill say "yeah wtv"
But sometimes, I feel isolated because of it.
I want to feel loved.
I want to feel valued.
I want to be important to someone.
But instead, I feel useless and like I'm always in everyone's way being a disappointment.
I hope you have a blessed day/night...
Living with insecurities and feelings of being a disappointment is a deeply personal battle that many of us face silently. From my own experience, I've found that these feelings often stem from internalized messages about not fitting in or not meeting expectations — whether from family, friends, or society. The image text you shared, apologizing for not making good grades or fitting in, highlights just how common it is to wrestle with self-worth in a world that constantly judges us. What has helped me the most is learning to challenge those negative thoughts directly. When I thought, "I'm ugly" or "I'm annoying," I started writing down moments when people showed kindness or expressed genuine appreciation for me. This practice didn't erase insecurity overnight, but it began shifting my perspective towards self-acceptance. Another key step was reaching out and sharing these feelings with trusted friends or in supportive communities. Opening up about feeling isolated or like a disappointment can be scary, yet it often leads to realizing that others feel similarly, which makes suffering less alone. Connecting with others through shared hashtags like #insecure, #lonely, and #sad can be comforting because it signals that vulnerability is a common human experience. I also discovered that focusing on activities that bring a sense of purpose helps counter feelings of uselessness. Volunteering, creative projects, or hobbies can remind us of our value beyond external validation. Taking small steps to care for myself physically and mentally, even when motivation is low, was crucial in rebuilding my confidence. Lastly, learning to forgive myself for perceived shortcomings and acknowledging that everyone has flaws and struggles creates space for growth. The message of apologizing to oneself, as reflected in the image text, resonated deeply with me. Accepting these imperfections as part of the human experience allows healing to begin. If you're feeling similarly — isolated, undervalued, or unsure about yourself — remember you’re not alone. Seeking support, practicing self-compassion, and embracing small moments of joy can gradually illuminate a path forward to feeling loved and important, just as you are.