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How I ended up in Foster care 💔

When I was 5 years old, I was living with my mother's parents. one day when I was at school a resource officer pulled me out and asked me if I was scared when I was at home, I told them I was scared because the police were always at the property for reasons I was far to young to comprehend.

The next day, when I was at school, when I was leaving to go to the car rider area, the same resource officer pulled me aside and had me wait with him. An hour later, a lady showed up and told me she was from DSS and I would be coming with her. This started a 2 Year Long string of going in between 14 different foster homes. I'll have to share over multiple posts. Being removed from everyone I know and everything I know at such a Young Age ( when I frankly knew very little but enough to know that situation wasn't good) Really affected my interpersonal relationships and social growth as a kid. I still haven't even coped with that situation or many others. If anyone who reads this is a child from the system, know you are safe and free to share your story. the people here will understand ❤️🙏

#safespace #lemon8challenge #embracevulnerability #fostercare #childhoodmemories #trauma #MentalHealth #healingjourney #traumahealing #letschat

2024/10/23 Edited to

Foster care is a vital system that provides temporary homes for children in crisis, but the experience can be extraordinarily challenging. Numerous studies highlight the emotional and psychological effects that frequent moves can have on children, often leading to feelings of instability and trauma. Children like the author, who have transitioned through multiple foster homes, frequently grapple with issues surrounding identity, belonging, and trust. It’s essential to shed light on the importance of fostering supportive relationships, whether in foster homes or among peers, to aid recovery and healing. Engaging with support groups and communities can provide solace and understanding for those with similar experiences. It's crucial for survivors of the system to recognize their strength and worth, and to know they are not alone in their journey. These conversations not only foster healing but also raise awareness about the foster care system and the need for reform, ultimately helping future generations of children in care.

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I'm sorry that you had to go through this. Please message me if you ever need to talk about anything. Stories like yours is part of the reason why I've always wanted to become a foster parent, to truly be a place where kids feel welcome and safe

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I was in foster care myself for 6 years and I definitely moved around but I couldn’t imagine being moved around that many times. I’m so sorry.. the system is rigged has been and probably always will be unfortunately.

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