HELP ME DECIDE!!

My birthday is in June and my husband surprised me with tickets to see my favorite rapper/singer on stage as a early birthday gift. NOW I’m having hot girl problems on picking what outfit to wear to the concert.

Here are some general notes to keep in mind:

1. I’m going to Detroit to see my favorite artist, NF. If you don’t know who he is, he’s the one that sings “Let You Down” (very popular song, it awoken me to his music). Anyways I need help picking out a outfit.

2. Michigan is bipolar, Michiganders you know what I mean, so idk how exactly may weather is going to be. Hopefully it’s not too hot or too cold but whatever the case, it’s inside of a stadium.

3. I want a “edgy” look without going full out edgy. I’m swinging towards the second outfit but want other people’s opinions. I usually don’t dress edgy but to me this is how I would dress if I wanted to become a sharp edge. With this also said, I don’t know if I’d rather wear fishnets or the see-through long sleeve since I never worn either before but they are both $20 on Amazon.

4. I was trying to corporate themes that NF raps/sings about (like depression, anxiety, death, stuff like that). His last album, also the one I’ll be seeing in person, is called “HOPE” (also tried to corporate that in the outfits as well).

💗 HOT GIRLS DON’T GATE-KEEP 💗

Clothes:

Item: Antisocial Butterfly OverSized Tee

💰Price: $22.99 USD on Amazon

Item:Zebra Long Sleeve Crop Top

💰Price: $19.99 USD on Amazon

Item: Cargo Pants (Same in both photos)

💰Price: $39.98 USD on Amazon

Item: Nike Women’s AMES (Same in both photos)

💰Price: $98 USD at Kohl’s (2022)

Item: See-Through Long Sleeve

💰Price: $19.99 USD on Amazon

Item: Fishnet Long Sleeve

💰Price: $18.99 USD on Amazon

Item: Never Better Skeleton Tee-Shirt

💰Price: $9.99 USD on Amazon

Jewelry:

Item: Hope Necklace

💰Price: $12.98 USD on Amazon

Item: Stackable Earrings (Slide 4)

💰Price: $2.40 USD on Shein

Item: Initial Earrings (Same in both photos)

💰Price: $2.90 USD on Shein

Item: Stackable Earrings (Slide 5)

💰Price: $4.70 USD on Shein

Hairstyle:

Item: Bun

💰Price: $1.90 USD on Shein

2024/1/24 Edited to

... Read moreAttending an indoor concert like NF's in Detroit during June can be tricky when it comes to choosing the right outfit, especially with Michigan's unpredictable weather. Since the concert is inside a stadium, layers could be your best friend—allowing you to adjust for any air conditioning or sudden temperature changes. When thinking about an edgy yet wearable look, layering a see-through long sleeve under an oversized tee like the Antisocial Butterfly or pairing fishnet sleeves with cargo pants offers a trendy touch without going full gothic. Both fishnets and see-through tops can express that edgy vibe subtly while still feeling comfortable for a concert setting. Jewelry is a great way to add personal flair without going overboard. Stackable earrings and a simple hope necklace can nod to NF's themes of anxiety and hope, tying your look to the music’s message. Since you mentioned you usually don't dress edgy, balancing bold pieces like fishnets with casual cargo pants or sneakers (like the Nike AMES) keeps it approachable. If you're unsure about trying fishnets or see-through tops for the first time, consider how each complements your usual style and confidence. Maybe start with smaller accessories or try layering the see-through long sleeve under a t-shirt for a gentle introduction. Ultimately, your outfit should make you feel empowered and ready to enjoy the concert experience. Lastly, don’t forget to plan your hairstyle—your easy bun from Shein is practical and stylish for a concert vibe, keeping hair off your face so you can dance and enjoy the show without worry. Whatever you choose, it's about your comfort and celebrating your birthday with music that resonates with you.

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