BLOG BANTER || Rebuilding Your Social Circle 🫶📝
Hi Hii,
♥️ I dont know about yall but as someone who recently graduated college this year and is re-entering the world generally ..... i am NOT having the best time 😅.
Sure they tell you about the hobbies you now have time for or to try that one restaurant that youve been eyeing for the last 2 months but what they DONT talk about is the social anxiety you have to overcome from only interacting with those in your immediate area or colleges for the LAST FOUR YEARS 🙂🙂↕️.
♥️ Ive never had a problem talking to others in public or sparking up a conversation... but what do I talk about with strangers ? as an ADULT now, LOL. Do I start with music or ask about their career? The idea of befriending someone you have no background with? 😔❌ ( for my girlies with slight trust issues too, i see you 🫶🏾 )
♥️ With media platforms, its different because you arent meeting them in person, hearing how they speak , etc . but I have made it a mission of mine to rebuild my social circle ( virtually and in person ) because cool girls stick together and id love to meet more/new/interesting people! Having adult friends to travel, work on fun projects, or just chat with is truly something Id like to invest in within my 20s.
[ How do you usually meet people and become friends? comment below ⬇️] #socialfriends #embracevulnerability #making friends as a adult. #Lemon8Diary #blackgirllemon8
S.PEA | 12.18.24
Rebuilding your social circle after college can feel daunting, especially for those struggling with social anxiety. This transition often comes with challenges such as finding common interests and initiating conversations without a shared background. Today, many are turning to social media to foster connections, as it allows interactions without the pressure of face-to-face meetings. To ease this journey, consider engaging in hobbies that interest you; classes or local events can be fantastic places to meet like-minded individuals. Participating in community groups or online forums can also facilitate friend-making, as these platforms allow for gradual interaction. When you meet new people, focus on shared hobbies or interests to break the ice—ask about their favorite books, TV shows, or travel experiences to spark genuine conversations. It's also important to approach new relationships with vulnerability. Sharing a bit about yourself can encourage trust and openness, making it easier for potential friends to connect with you. Remember, forming adult friendships takes time and effort, but the rewards of having a supportive social circle in your 20s are well worth it.
I feel this 🥲