written by me

Writing songs has always been a deeply personal and therapeutic process for me. This particular piece captures the raw emotions I faced while coming to terms with the complexities of love and self-worth. In my experience, songwriting is more than just stringing words together; it's a mirror to the soul, revealing feelings we often hide from ourselves and others. When I wrote the lines about 'practicing being fine until I believed the lie' and 'erasing me to make more room for you,' I was confronting the painful reality many people face—sacrificing parts of their identity in relationships, hoping for acceptance or love in return. This artistic expression helped me understand that true love should not come at the cost of losing oneself. Sharing these vulnerable thoughts through music not only helped me heal but also connected me with others who have walked similar paths. For aspiring songwriters, I recommend embracing honesty in your lyrics; listeners resonate most with authenticity. Remember, the act of writing can be a powerful tool for self-discovery and emotional release. If you're struggling with self-expression or confidence in your songwriting, start small and write from your truth. Don't worry about perfection or external approval—your story is unique, and your emotions are valid. Through this journey, I've learned that being 'written by me' means owning every part of my story and finding strength in my words.