I lost my best friend 😔🐾🪽

It’s been 112 days since my best friend, furbaby, companion and partner in crime died.

Her name was Hera and she literally saved my life in the darkest time I lived during 2019-2020.

Hera was the inspiration behind my account on instagram called SableHera. A safe space where I shared our journey together, the good and the bad, the struggles of dog ownership and so much more.

I miss her terribly. She may be gone but never forgotten 🐾🪽

SableHera on instagram will stay as my safe space to remember Hera while my accounts on tiktok and lemon8 will be with the same handle will be my lifestyle active accounts.

#dogloss #griefandloss #dogmom #petloss

2025/5/30 Edited to

... Read moreIt's truly heartbreaking to lose a furry family member, and what you've shared about Hera resonates deeply with so many of us who are pet owners. The bond we form with our dogs is unlike any other, a silent understanding filled with unconditional love and loyalty. When they leave us, it feels like a piece of our soul goes with them. I remember days spent just watching my own older dog, his white muzzle and slower pace a constant reminder of the precious time we had together. Caring for an elderly dog brings its own unique set of joys and challenges. You witness their wisdom, their gentle spirit, and their unwavering devotion even as their bodies start to fail them. There's a bittersweet beauty in those final years, a deepening of the bond as you become their primary caregiver, ensuring their comfort and happiness in every possible way. The grief that follows the loss of an elderly pet can be particularly profound. It's not just the sudden absence, but the ending of a long chapter, a lifetime of memories woven into every day. Whether your beloved companion was a playful Golden Retriever known for their sunny disposition, a dignified German Shepherd, or a spirited Jack Russell, each dog leaves an indelible paw print on our hearts. Their unique personalities shape our lives, teaching us patience, joy, and the true meaning of unconditional love. For many owners, our dogs are our confidants, our comfort, and our reason to smile. They are truly family. Navigating the grief process after such a significant loss is incredibly personal, and there’s no right or wrong way to feel. In my own experience, I found solace in creating a small memorial space for my dog, a quiet corner with photos and a favorite toy. Talking about them, sharing stories, and allowing myself to cry without judgment were crucial steps. Some days, it felt impossible to get out of bed, but remembering their zest for life eventually encouraged me to find joy again, even if it was just in small moments. Connecting with other pet owners who’ve been through similar experiences also helped immensely; knowing you’re not alone in your sorrow can be incredibly comforting. It's also important to remember that healing doesn't mean forgetting. Our pets, like Hera, become a part of who we are. Honoring their memory can take many forms – perhaps volunteering at a local animal shelter, donating to a pet charity in their name, or simply continuing to live a life full of the love and joy they brought you. It's a journey, not a destination, and there will be good days and bad days. But with time, the sharp edges of grief begin to soften, replaced by cherished memories that bring a gentle warmth to the heart. Your love for Hera is eternal, and that bond will always remain.

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I’m so sorry for your loss🥺

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larijade18

sending you so much love. May her spirit live on 💕

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