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What to do when meeting a redneck

🔸 people are generous or narrow-minded depending on their beliefs. Rednecks believe that there is not enough things, limited things are a sense of jealousy. Generous people believe that there is a lot of things, unlimited, not possessive. But often, generous people stick to their beliefs, making them hate narrow-minded people unconsciously.

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🔸 Redneck because he is possessed by passion. If we hate him, we are also possessed by passion. We do not have to be merciful to him. Start to pity him first. See that he is suffering. Understand that everyone has his own story to make him choose to do so. He is suffering no different from us. Good luck to him. May he find good things, we can change from anger to mercy.

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🔸, when we meet a redneck, think that it is our fate that we have been redneck to others before, and test us if we are clinging to the desire to be good? Can we be generous to him? If he can be more generous, can we be happy with him?

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🔸 The Buddha said to the monk that if the thief saws her organs to death, if the monk thinks evil of the thief, it means that he has not followed his teachings, the Buddha teaches us to value mental prosperity more than life safety.

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🔸 Can we really practice generosity in all areas? What makes us think that generosity does not apply to all areas! If we are to be in that area, it is better to be generous or narrow-minded? It is difficult, but if there is no restriction to cause it? Redneck is ready to cut everything in life, but generous people do not have to cut him out of life. We can always give them space. Not we must always give, but we are ready to give the part we can give. We can smile.

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💗 can we trust and heal when we meet rednecks? Generous people can have the space to support the most rednecks who enter our lives. If we can, no matter what happens, we can accept everything.

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If we meet a redneck, how can we be generous?

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# Sajathico # Dharma # The morning tripitaka # Generous # Redneck

2025/10/28 Edited to

... Read moreหลายคนถามว่า “ใจแคบหมายถึงอะไร” ในมุมที่ฉันเจอมา ใจแคบไม่ใช่แค่ตระหนี่เรื่องเงิน แต่เป็น “ความคิดแบบของมีจำกัด” เลยกลัวเสียประโยชน์ กลัวถูกแย่งพื้นที่ หรือกลัวคนอื่นได้มากกว่า พอความกลัวนำหน้า คำพูดและการกระทำก็จะออกมาแนวคับแคบ เช่น ชอบจับผิด ไม่ยอมรับความเห็นต่าง หวงเครดิต หวงของ หวงเวลา หรือไม่อยากให้ใครได้ดีเกินหน้า ตอนที่ฉันเจอคนใจแคบครั้งแรก ๆ (โดยเฉพาะที่ทำงาน/ในครอบครัว) ปฏิกิริยาอัตโนมัติคือ “โกรธ” และเผลอติดป้ายว่าเขาแย่ แต่พอคิดดี ๆ ความโกรธของเราก็ทำให้ใจเราแคบลงเหมือนกัน เลยลองเปลี่ยนวิธีรับมือแบบค่อยเป็นค่อยไป 1) แยก “คน” ออกจาก “พฤติกรรม” แทนที่จะคิดว่า “เขาเป็นคนแย่” ฉันเปลี่ยนเป็น “ตอนนี้เขากำลังกลัว/กำลังกังวล” แค่นี้ใจเราจะอ่อนลงและไม่อยากเอาชนะทันที 2) ตั้งขอบเขตแบบไม่ต้องตัดขาด ใจกว้างไม่เท่ากับยอมทุกเรื่อง ฉันจะเลือกให้เท่าที่ให้ไหว เช่น ให้ข้อมูลเท่าที่จำเป็น แบ่งปันเท่าที่ไม่ทำให้ตัวเองเดือดร้อน และถ้าอีกฝ่ายล้ำเส้นก็พูดสั้น ๆ ชัด ๆ ว่า “ขอแบบนี้นะ” 3) ประโยคเตือนใจ (ใช้เหมือนคำคมคนใจแคบไว้ดึงสติ) - “เขาหวงเพราะเขากลัว ไม่ใช่เพราะเราด้อยค่า” - “อย่าให้ความใจแคบของใคร มาบีบหัวใจเราให้แคบตาม” - “ใจกว้างคือมีพื้นที่ให้คนอื่นอยู่ในใจได้ โดยไม่ต้องให้เขาคุมชีวิตเรา” - “ถ้าจะชนะทุกครั้ง ใจเราจะไม่มีวันสงบ” 4) เปลี่ยนคำถามในใจ แทนที่จะถามว่า “ทำไมเขาใจแคบจัง” ฉันถามว่า “ตอนนี้เรายึดอะไรอยู่?” บางทีเรายึดภาพตัวเองว่าเป็นคนดี ยึดความถูกต้อง หรือยึดการอยากให้เขาเปลี่ยนเร็ว ๆ พอเห็นจุดยึด เราจะวางได้ง่ายขึ้น 5) ฝึกเมตตาแบบเริ่มจาก ‘สงสาร’ ก่อน ถ้ายังเมตตาไม่ออก ฉันเริ่มจากการยอมรับว่าเขาก็ทุกข์ในแบบของเขา แล้วค่อย ๆ อวยพรเงียบ ๆ ว่า “ขอให้เขาเบาลง” วิธีนี้ช่วยเปลี่ยนพลังจากการปะทะเป็นการวางใจ สรุปคือ เวลาเจอคนใจแคบ เราไม่จำเป็นต้องชนะเขา แต่ชนะ “ความคับแคบในใจเรา” ให้ได้ก่อน แล้วค่อยเลือกวางตัว พูด และให้เท่าที่พอดี แบบที่เรายังรักษาใจตัวเองได้

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