Ex Lover Tarot Reading
They’re not over you. Right now, they feel like their life is off balanced without you. Things have not been the same. For some, the grass was NOT greener on the other side.
This person could still be entertaining other things or people but as a coping mechanism from losing you. You can’t get over someone by getting under someone else. Your ex is stressed but they’re masking the pain. That I don’t care attitude.
They regret putting you through so much. They took advantage of your energy and know they drained you. They feel weak (may actually be sick). They wished they fought harder for the connection(only if cheating wasn’t involved). Family or friends could’ve split you two apart. They want to reach out to you but they don’t know how to fix things. A very frustrated energy here. I’m seeing someone constantly running their hands through their hair.
They haven’t reached out because they don’t know what to say. They were aware of how they were treating you but continued to do so due to their own personal problems. That person needs help but may deny.
They’re still toxic and no they haven’t changed. It feels like they got worse. They’re energetically tied to you in a dark obsessed way. They want to tell you how much they messed up and want your forgiveness. They’ll accept the fact that you may not want to be with them but they just want to apologize for their behavior. They’ll learned quick after that you were the light of the relationship and they took it for granted. Now they spend their days lonely.
It will literally pain them when they see you move on to someone more stable. But in my opinion. “pop off”.
They want to start over but they’re still immature and if you take them back give or take 2+ months you’ll see the same patterns as the reason you left the first time.
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After diving into what's going on with your ex through tarot, it's easy to get caught up in those feelings of 'what if...' or 'maybe they've changed.' I've been there, trust me! It's human nature to want closure or to hope for a fairytale ending, especially when the cards hint that they might be missing you or regretting their actions. But here’s the tough truth I’ve learned from countless readings and personal experience: just because someone regrets their past behavior, doesn't mean they've actually changed. The article touched on this perfectly – those old patterns often resurface. It's like seeing a movie you've already watched; you know how it ends, and sometimes, it's just not worth the emotional rollercoaster for a second viewing. When you’re grappling with an ex who might still be emotionally tied to you, it's crucial to put your own well-being first. Think about why the relationship ended in the first place. Were your boundaries disrespected? Did you feel drained or unappreciated, just as the reading suggested your ex now feels about their own actions towards you? Recognizing these patterns in their behavior – and how they impacted you – is the first step towards true healing. Instead of focusing on 'what's going on with your ex' and their emotional state, shift that energy back to YOU. This isn't selfish; it's self-preservation. Here are a few things that have helped me, and others I've advised, navigate these tricky waters: Embrace Detachment: It's hard, but necessary. You can acknowledge their feelings (as revealed by the tarot) without letting them dictate your future. Their regret is their journey to process, not yours to fix. Focus on Your Growth: Use this period to pour into yourself. What hobbies have you neglected? What goals have you put on hold? This is your time to 'pop off,' as the original article wisely put it, and become the most vibrant version of yourself. Set Clear Boundaries: If your ex does try to reach out for forgiveness, it’s okay to listen, but it’s even more okay to protect your peace. You don’t owe them a second chance if they haven't demonstrated tangible, sustained change. Remember, apologies are just words if actions don't follow. Seek Support: Talk to friends, family, or even a therapist. Having an unbiased perspective can be incredibly grounding when your emotions are swirling. Trust Your Gut: The tarot reading offers insights, but your intuition is your most powerful guide. If something feels off, or if you're feeling pressured, listen to that inner voice. The reading highlighted that your ex may be "energetically tied to you in a dark obsessed way" and that they haven't changed, potentially even gotten worse. This isn't a sign to rush back; it's a warning. Moving on to someone more stable, as the article mentions, is a path to genuine happiness, not just a way to make your ex 'feel the pain.' Your happiness is for *you*. Remember, closure isn't always found in a conversation or a reunion. Sometimes, it's found in accepting what was, learning from it, and choosing a path that prioritizes your peace and future. Don't let the ghost of a past relationship overshadow the bright future you deserve to build, independent of what your ex is thinking or feeling.
