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Anything good keeps it. Anything bad, don't say it.


Because there's nothing entirely good.

In a person's life, no one is perfect, no event is perfect, and no relationship is ever smooth, everything is always mixed with bright and pensive sides.

The short quote:

"Anything good keeps it. Anything bad doesn't say it."

So it's not to hide the truth, it's to consciously choose "trust" and "lay down words."

1. Because words are more powerful than you think

One sentence of speech. Might make someone smile all day.

But a few negative words can be embedded in life.

Knowing this, we should choose what is created, not destroyed.

2. Everyone is flawed.

No one can be all good, not even ourselves.

If we were amplified every mistake, we would be hurt, too.

So before talking about the disadvantages, ask yourself, "Is it necessary?"

3. Keeping certain matters is honor.

Some stories don't need to be recounted.

Some mistakes don't need to be announced to the world.

Silence at some pace is gentle protection of relationships.

4. Seeing the good side is mind training.

When we choose to keep good things in memory,

Our hearts will be lighter. Look at the world softer.

Small pleasures will gradually grow without us realizing it.

5. Speak sparingly. Do not speak to vent emotions.

Many times we speak because we are angry, upset or disappointed.

But the words that are out are irreversible.

To stop thinking before you speak is to protect yourself and your audience.

6. Do not expand small things into big things.

Some bad things are just emotional.

If we don't keep going, the story's over.

But if we expand it, small things can become huge cracks.

7. Choose to remember the good things to keep the relationship long.

A good relationship is not perfect.

But by forgiving and looking at things better than mistakes.

8. Not a lie, but a choice of focus.

We're not denying the truth.

Just choose not to put bad at the center of life.

Because the more often you talk about it, the more you get caught up in it.

9. Some truths should speak consciously.

Of course, not all matters need to be quiet.

If it matters, it should be said with good reason and intent.

Not to say to hurt or overcome.

10. The world will be better when we choose to say creative things.

If each person chooses to keep the good things in mind,

And let go of the unnecessary.

The society around us will also be gentler without much effort.

Because in the end...

Nothing can be all good, and nothing can be bad.

What we can control is

We will only "choose what to remember" and "choose what to say."

Cr. Mother tells a story.

# Real life

# Teaching article

# Good idea

# Leave to think

# Understand people to understand themselves

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