Automatically translated.View original post

Anything good keeps it. Anything bad, don't say it.


Because there's nothing entirely good.

In a person's life, no one is perfect, no event is perfect, and no relationship is ever smooth, everything is always mixed with bright and pensive sides.

The short quote:

"Anything good keeps it. Anything bad doesn't say it."

So it's not to hide the truth, it's to consciously choose "trust" and "lay down words."

1. Because words are more powerful than you think

One sentence of speech. Might make someone smile all day.

But a few negative words can be embedded in life.

Knowing this, we should choose what is created, not destroyed.

2. Everyone is flawed.

No one can be all good, not even ourselves.

If we were amplified every mistake, we would be hurt, too.

So before talking about the disadvantages, ask yourself, "Is it necessary?"

3. Keeping certain matters is honor.

Some stories don't need to be recounted.

Some mistakes don't need to be announced to the world.

Silence at some pace is gentle protection of relationships.

4. Seeing the good side is mind training.

When we choose to keep good things in memory,

Our hearts will be lighter. Look at the world softer.

Small pleasures will gradually grow without us realizing it.

5. Speak sparingly. Do not speak to vent emotions.

Many times we speak because we are angry, upset or disappointed.

But the words that are out are irreversible.

To stop thinking before you speak is to protect yourself and your audience.

6. Do not expand small things into big things.

Some bad things are just emotional.

If we don't keep going, the story's over.

But if we expand it, small things can become huge cracks.

7. Choose to remember the good things to keep the relationship long.

A good relationship is not perfect.

But by forgiving and looking at things better than mistakes.

8. Not a lie, but a choice of focus.

We're not denying the truth.

Just choose not to put bad at the center of life.

Because the more often you talk about it, the more you get caught up in it.

9. Some truths should speak consciously.

Of course, not all matters need to be quiet.

If it matters, it should be said with good reason and intent.

Not to say to hurt or overcome.

10. The world will be better when we choose to say creative things.

If each person chooses to keep the good things in mind,

And let go of the unnecessary.

The society around us will also be gentler without much effort.

Because in the end...

Nothing can be all good, and nothing can be bad.

What we can control is

We will only "choose what to remember" and "choose what to say."

Cr. Mother tells a story.

# Real life

# Teaching article

# Good idea

# Leave to think

# Understand people to understand themselves

2/23 Edited to

... Read moreจากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว การเลือกพูดสิ่งที่ดีและเก็บความไม่ดีไว้เป็นสิ่งที่ช่วยสร้างความสงบในใจและความสัมพันธ์กับคนรอบข้างได้มากกว่าที่คิด เมื่อเราเรียนรู้ที่จะไม่พูดในสิ่งที่จะทำร้ายคนอื่น หรือเป็นการขยายความผิดพลาดขึ้นมา มันจะทำให้บรรยากาศรอบตัวนุ่มนวลขึ้นจริง ๆ และเรายังได้ฝึกใจให้มองสิ่งดี ๆ ในผู้คนมากขึ้น ช่วยให้เรามีความสุขกับความสัมพันธ์ที่ไม่สมบูรณ์แบบได้อย่างช้า ๆ และยั่งยืน ในบางครั้งที่เจอเรื่องน่าไม่พอใจหรือผิดหวัง การหยุดคิด ก่อนที่จะพูดเพื่อระบายอารมณ์นั้นสำคัญมาก เพราะคำพูดที่ออกไปแล้วเรียกกลับคืนไม่ได้ การเลือกจะโฟกัสที่สิ่งดี ทำให้เราไม่จมอยู่กับความทุกข์และช่วยให้เราหันไปใส่ใจกับสิ่งที่สร้างสรรค์ นอกจากนี้ เมื่อได้เรียนรู้ข้อคิดเรื่องการเก็บบางเรื่องไว้ ไม่เล่าต่อ ก็ถือว่าเป็นการให้เกียรติความเป็นส่วนตัวและความสัมพันธ์ของเรา พยายามที่จะไม่ขยายเรื่องเล็กให้กลายเป็นเรื่องใหญ่ ส่งผลให้อารมณ์และบรรยากาศในความสัมพันธ์ดีขึ้นอย่างเห็นได้ชัด โลกใบนี้คงจะน่าอยู่ขึ้นมาก เมื่อทุกคนเลือกจะพูดสิ่งที่สร้างสรรค์และเก็บรักษาสิ่งที่ดีไว้ในใจ เพราะไม่มีใครสมบูรณ์แบบ แต่เราสามารถเลือกวิธีมองและแสดงออกเพื่อความสงบสุขในจิตใจและความสัมพันธ์ได้เสมอ

Related posts

A person relaxes on a chair with a black cat on their lap. Overlay text reads "99 WAYS TO SAY 'NO' (nicely) SWIPE," introducing a list of ways to decline requests. The Lemon8 logo and user handle are visible.
A white text box overlays a person and a black cat on a chair, displaying the first 21 ways to say "no" nicely, including phrases like "No," "Nope," and "Not now." The Lemon8 logo is at the bottom left.
A white text box overlays a person and a black cat on a chair, listing ways to say "no" nicely from number 22 to 36. Examples include "Ask me again in a [year, month, week]" and "I'm not taking on any other tasks right now."
99 ways to say “no” nicely 🫶
okay, so not allll of these replies are people-pleaser approved 😅 but all of them are truly acceptable answers! here’s 99 ways to say no ⤵️ 1. No 2. Nope 3. Nah 4. Heck No! 5. I’m good 6. Not now 7. No, I’m sorry 8. I don’t think so 9. Not this time 10. No thank you 11. Unfortunately n
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

6407 likes

A silhouette of a person with a raised arm making a peace sign, set against a dramatic red and orange sky. The image features the question: 'Do you tell your friends their partner is bad for them?' along with Lemon8 branding.
Bad Partners
If your friend is dating someone who you know is not good for them do you say anything? My friend is dating someone who keeps putting her last and basically using her. They are constantly on and off and they go see other people during these off periods. Its been more than 2 years of this and
Amela

Amela

2 likes

Period Do’s & Don’ts You Should Know!
Hello besties! Periods can be tricky, but with a few simple tips, you can navigate that time of the month with ease. Let's break down what you should (and shouldn't) do to stay comfortable and healthy during your cycle! - DO's: 1. Stay Hydrated O Drinking plenty of water helps reduc
Ashley Thurman

Ashley Thurman

19.5K likes

An open book, 'Library Mindset,' displaying a chapter titled 'Change Your Life in One Night,' with text about Frank Zane and Quentin Tarantino. The book rests on a white table, emphasizing personal growth and intentional living.
An open book, 'Don't Leave Anything for Later,' showing a chapter on 'It's About Priorities.' The text discusses setting life priorities and the importance of actions over mere motivation, set against a blurred background.
An open book, 'Library Mindset,' featuring a page detailing 'three daily wins': physical, mental, and spiritual. This section encourages readers to be a 'complete winner' through consistent self-improvement.
Don’t Leave Anything for Later by Library Mindset
I just started this book and I already like the message. It talks about how we sometimes keep waiting for the “right time” to do things in life. The book reminds us that life is happening now, so we should stop postponing what matters and start living more intentionally. What really resonated wi
Mansanas

Mansanas

4 likes

Now they can’t do anything unless i say so☺️
#sims #sims4 #simscommunity
shel

shel

414 likes

Send a friend and don’t say anything🤫🍋
Mads

Mads

1140 likes

HOW TO GET ANYTHING YOU WANT 📈✨
#AskLemon8 #lawofassumption #desiredreality #mindset #growthmindset
Mindset + discipline + growth✨

Mindset + discipline + growth✨

54 likes

Just finished Don’t Leave Anything for Later. 📖
Just finished Don’t Leave Anything for Later. This was one of those books that makes you pause and really think about how you’re living your life. Some pages hit harder than others, especially the reminders about taking action and not waiting too long to do the things you want. Definitely one of th
Mansanas

Mansanas

3 likes

When I Can’t Start Anything… ADHD Paradox
we all know this feeling all too well. i’m working on getting better at handling the pressure when it’s getting worser! what do you do when you don’t know what to do FIRST!? #adhdinwomen #adhdparalysis #adhd #adhdparadox
Sunny B.

Sunny B.

1829 likes

SAY IT!!! Don’t be shy 🫣
🫠 What is something you hate, that everyone else loves? Me: these new artist and bad songs 😅 sorry I had to say it. I just listen to old and nostalgic songs I can’t listen to anything new because I feel like everything sounds the same without saying that the words they use.. nah. . #lemo
Bea

Bea

283 likes

ten ways to say "sorry"when you didn't do anything
don't say sorry, make them say sorry 😁😁
Sofia mata

Sofia mata

10 likes

HOW TO GET ANYTHING YOU WANT✨
#lawofassumption #desiredreality #mindset #growthmindset #Lemon8
Sarah

Sarah

656 likes

DON’T LOOK BACK 🚫✨
There’s a reason God keeps telling us to move forward. Not because your past didn’t matter, but because staying there will cost you your future. So many of us struggle with looking back… at old relationships, old habits, old versions of ourselves. Sometimes it’s not even because we want it again
Lindsey Marie

Lindsey Marie

56 likes

🫶🏽 wouldn’t change ANYTHING about me 💕
#chatgpt
$c0rP͙!0 👽

$c0rP͙!0 👽

2 likes

👍 Do This To Attract Anything You Want
🟡 WHY SHOULD WE PRACTICE MANIFESTATION? 🔆 Because it change the way you think and direct your actions accordingly. We all have moments that we can't do certain things because we think we are not smart enough, we don't have as much money as we want, we don't have a good job, we dont
Better Me

Better Me

79 likes

🧠Apps that make ADHD consistent at ANYTHING🌟🙌🏻
🕒Trello ADHD-friendly Trello helps you stay organized effortlessly. Create boards, lists, and cards to break down tasks. Visual layout keeps you on track and consistent in managing your day. 📌Readbay.ai Struggling with ADHD? Readbay.ai helps you dive into flow with Just 1 Read a Day on 🧠 Accel
Stella Luna🌈

Stella Luna🌈

129 likes

My Bible Study Routine That Keeps Me Grounded
This is the exact routine I use every time I open my Bible. I pray first and ask the Holy Spirit to guide me. Then I grab my favorite pen and stick to one color while I’m working on a book or chapter. I circle words I don’t understand, underline anything that stands out, and highlight the verses th
Darlene | Bible Study

Darlene | Bible Study

650 likes

This project made me realize I can do anything.
#chickencoop #DIY #diyprojects #youcandoit #chickens
Emily

Emily

166 likes

❓2025 What keeps you moving forward?
❓ Today’s Question: What keeps you moving forward? There are times when we lose motivation and enthusiasm, making it hard to stay consistent on the path to success. But now is the perfect moment to reflect on what brought us here and to take ourselves seriously. Consistency is key, but motiva
studywithemmane

studywithemmane

842 likes

A young woman sits on green grass at sunset with a festival in the background, smiling. Text overlay reads, 'MAKE THEM OBSESSED ABT YOU how to be magnetic & attract people into your life.'
Two people hold hands in a car, illustrating deep attraction and strong connection. Text explains the post's goal to transform from chasing to attracting.
A woman in a floral skirt stands on a sidewalk, smiling over her shoulder. Text overlays list four tips: 'BE OBSESSED WITH YOURSELF FIRST,' 'DON'T GIVE AWAY TOO MUCH,' 'SHOW INTEREST IN THEIR LIFE,' and 'ALWAYS BE CURIOUS & PLAYFUL.'
make people OBSESSED w you (attract, don't chase)
OK -- so obsession might be a strong word (had to get your attention here ;) ) -- what I really mean by this is DEEP attraction & STRONG connection. I used to be someone who always felt like she was giving too much in relationships, only for people to take me for granted. There tips are what
Sarah Jolie 🌸

Sarah Jolie 🌸

399 likes

take anything but my cookies
Asma Faizal

Asma Faizal

11 likes

If you don’t have anything nice to say…..
Just color it!!!!! Sometimes I have to just color what I’m feeling! #coloringismytherapy #coloringsessions #adultcoloringpages
ColorHappyMama

ColorHappyMama

1 like

🧠HOW TO BE CONSISTENT AT ANYTHING✨
As a young lady just entering the workforce, I've been promoted three times in just 2 years. I've found that being consistent is the key to my success. So I would like to share my secret of BEING CONSISTENT AT EVERYTHING with everyone on Lemon8! <3 🎀Find your interests What you don&#
Olivia Jones

Olivia Jones

79 likes

Does anything matter?
Out everywhere #alternative #metalmusic #punk #edgyaesthetic #poppunk
SYTHE

SYTHE

3 likes

& I wouldn’t trade it for anything💕
#momlife #momsoflemon8 #momcreator #lemon8partner #lemon8partner #Lemon8Diary #funny #family Las Vegas
pay

pay

315 likes

How to memorize anything!!!
#studytips #lemon8challenge #letschat #schoolhomework #yougotthisgirl
Molly study’s

Molly study’s

12 likes

If you know you don’t want it, don’t entertain it.
I’ve met too many girls that always complain “this guy is so ugly, and he called me cute.” “He keeps saying this ——.” “He won’t stop texting me.” they complain and complain and complain, yet they won’t ACTUALLY tell them to stop, they won’t remove or block them, instead they entertain it, tak
ForTheGirls

ForTheGirls

8 likes

He keeps saying stuff like that and calls it a jk
My brother’s 14. He hasn’t done anything specifically wrong, but lately, I’ve felt weird being around him. He’ll say stuff like you’re so pretty or how do you look that good? And call it a joke but it makes me grossed out. Plus, he’ll just stare at me silently sometimes, which only makes it worse.
Lisa❤️

Lisa❤️

200 likes

Florida parents, don’t sleep on this pass
Wait… did you know your preschooler can get into Kennedy Space Center for free? Have you grabbed the Junior Space Explorer Pass yet? If not, this is your friendly reminder before it slips your mind again. We love it for three main reasons: 1️⃣ It’s educational + genuinely fun Our kids g
Fun with The Johnsons

Fun with The Johnsons

3 likes

Anyone doing anything cool this weekend?
I'm working as always #westernstyle #westernfashion #westernfitcheck #ashimmyadaykeepsthesadaway #western
Matthew James Moreland

Matthew James Moreland

2 likes

don’t say I never put yall on to anything!
if you need a hair care treatment, ofc the best option would be to just book me lol but if you can’t I highly suggest you run and get you some #amika hair care products 😮‍💨 #naturalhair #haircare #haircareproducts #blackgirlbeauty
Charlee Lynai

Charlee Lynai

61 likes

Does quitting sugar actually do anything?
I’ve been seriously thinking about quitting sugar for a month… but does cutting sugar actually do anything? 🤔 During the holidays, I’ll be the first to admit I go all in: the treats, the gatherings, the home-cooked meals, the nonstop celebrations. It’s so easy to take in more sugar (and calories) t
Cleo Natalie

Cleo Natalie

8 likes

When he’d do anything for his “friend” 🤭
📖 What I Need by J. Daniels 📖 Available on Amazon & KU! 💛 Brother’s Best Friend 💛 Forced Proximity 💛 Secret Relationship 💛 Friends to Lovers 💛 Small Town 💛 Standalone #romancerecommendations #bookreccomendation #romancebooks #forcedproximity #friendstolovers
J. Daniels

J. Daniels

106 likes

Letting our adopted son buy ANYTHING ❤️
When we say he lit up, HE LIT UPPPP! 🤣❤️🫶💯 this was so fun. We told him he could buy whatever he wants in the store and he definitely understood the assignment lol dont worry he is also learning alll about positive energy and gratitude 😂 😉 follow for more family fun! #familytime #lgbtq🌈 #shopp
Kayla Stewart 🧘‍♀️ ��🦋🌿🏳️‍🌈

Kayla Stewart 🧘‍♀️ 🦋🌿🏳️‍🌈

1446 likes

for the girls who think they don't have a voice 😶
the no. one reason i procrastinated on making the content ‘I’ wanted to see was.. thinking i didn’t have anything valuable to say i have always felt like the odd one, constantly misunderstood and ashamed of being both of those, so much so, i’d shut down and those negative thoughts wo
R Y E S I A

R Y E S I A

25 likes

Why Yall Didn’t Say Anything??
This combo is so yummy 🤤 LADIES!!!!! If you are a fan of Sol de janeiro pistachio and salted caramel perfume mist, then pairing it with Trader Joe’s salted caramel and pistachio body oil will likely enhance your experience. I smelled oh so yummy. These two products pair remarkably well. 10 out o
Nell L Coleman

Nell L Coleman

27 likes

🌸 Good Morning, Beautiful Friends! 🌞
“Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.” — Psalm 139:23 💗 This verse is such a gentle reminder that our Heavenly Father doesn’t just see what we show to the world—He knows the depths of our hearts. He understands the thoughts we can’t quite put into words, the
✝️AftenSkyy ✝️

✝️AftenSkyy ✝️

9 likes

Everyone thinks addiction is a pain pill, ANYTHING
Joshua

Joshua

28 likes

I don't have anything clever to say
#anticapitalist #politics #leftist #musclemommy #trans
MamaMephistopheles

MamaMephistopheles

31 likes

I tried it so you don’t have to!
I bought this eye crème with the impression it would brighten up my under eyes, as in my dark under eyes would lighten up but that wasn’t really the case. I even stayed consistent and finished the whole thing, but yeah no, my under eyes stayed pretty much the same. I do want to say, it does moist
Alexandra Villa

Alexandra Villa

9 likes

WHY DID NO ONE SAY ANYTHING?!
When you search plus size fashion in lemon8, it asked your body shape so you can SEE more styles tailored to YOU!! AHHH I’m obsessed #plussizeoutfitideas #plussizefashion #fashioninspo #Lemon8
Cleo Nash

Cleo Nash

5961 likes

A motivational quote on a textured light brown background, stating that people who dislike you often gossip about you, fabricating stories. The text encourages to 'KEEP LIVING' despite this. 'Lemon8' and '@bad__gorl' are at the bottom.
Nobody keeps tabs on you more than someone who doesn’t like you.
#keepliving #quotes #11pmedits #secretanimosity #adulting #paratiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
bad__gorl

bad__gorl

1 like

Scrub that keeps me looking fineee 🤏
#beautyholygrails #lemon8challenge this is a great sugar scrub I absolutely love and this isn't sponsored or anything I actually love it its smells so good I bought it at target for $8 plus tax but it feels softer than the othe sugar scrubs and I use mostly on my legs but it works on back o
Beachy Bum🤪🛍🌊✨️

Beachy Bum🤪🛍🌊✨️

16 likes

I'll listen to anything If it's a vibe.
Winterwolfy:]

Winterwolfy:]

2 likes

A close-up of a person's lower face, neck, and upper chest, wearing a blue ribbed top and a silver necklace. White text overlay reads: "Everything I want Is already mine It's already done Thank you to the divine."
A close-up of a person's lower face, neck, and upper chest, wearing a blue ribbed top and a silver necklace. White text overlay reads: "I'm so lucky I'm so blessed Everything I want Comes to me without stress."
A close-up of a person's lower face, neck, and upper chest, wearing a blue ribbed top and a silver necklace. White text overlay reads: "With inch of my soul "I believe" Therefore all I have to do Is sit back and receive."
Say this to manifest anything you want ✨
Use this 2x daily for best results and follow me to claim 🫶 #manifestation🦋🤍🙌🏼 #manifestyoursuccess #success #attract #dreamlife
Mina 🤍

Mina 🤍

20 likes

A 'Home Decluttering Guide' infographic with tips for various areas. It features sections for Kitchen, Bedroom, Bathroom, Living Room, Paper, and Digital, each with a relevant icon and a checklist of specific decluttering actions. The guide is presented on a light background with blue text.
Say Yes to Less with These Decluttering Tips! 📋🧺
Feeling overwhelmed by clutter? 🏡✨ Start small and tackle one room at a time with this Home Decluttering Guide! From organizing your kitchen and bathroom to refreshing your bedroom and digital space, these simple tips will help you create a home that feels light and peaceful. 💡🧹 ✔️ Keep what you
Heather 🩵

Heather 🩵

14.9K likes

See more