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I had just recently matched with a guy and the 1st day we had great conversations! Continues The following day but then he asks me for my phone number. at that point we had about 100 text messages exchanged. Told him I was hesitant about giving out my number and changed the subject. I’m assuming he’s no longer interested cuz He’s now not asking me question anymore just answering mine. Left him on read cuz I fell asleep. It’s now the third day, texted him not apologizing but just a “hey I fell asleep” kind of text and he’s just “it’s fine, hope you have good day”. I don’t feel wrong about not giving him my number bc he’s still a stranger after only one day of talking, but I’m bummed and thinking did I mess something up? Mind you I’m 29 n he’s 33. I’ve already made my choice about him. I’m just looking for input and advice for the next guy that comes along. #venting #asking advice on something #askingadvice #discussion #hinge #datingadvice #datingapps #helpfultips #amiwrong

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Overthinking in dating can be a common challenge for many individuals. When faced with uncertainty—like not wanting to share personal information early on—it's natural to feel anxious. For instance, if you've just started talking to someone and are hesitant to give out your phone number, you may fear this will derail any potential connection. It's crucial to recognize your own comfort levels and boundaries. In cases where you feel that the other person is pulling away after a decision like this, it can lead you to overthink your actions. The key is to communicate openly, not only to get clarity on their feelings but also to express your own, without the pressure of obligation. Understanding your emotional triggers and boundaries can help prevent misunderstandings and build a stronger foundation for future relationships. Engaging in self-reflection can also provide insight into your patterns of thinking. Why do you feel you may have messed something up? This kind of introspection can help you develop the confidence needed for healthier dating experiences. Seeking advice from friends or engaging with supportive communities can also alleviate concern and enhance your perspective on dating dynamics. Ultimately, focusing on open communication, self-awareness, and maintaining boundaries can lessen the impact of overthinking in the dating realm. Remember, every interaction teaches us something valuable about ourselves and our preferences in relationships.

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