I saw a video the other day that made me laugh, but also hit the nail on the head. The guy was making a funny joke about how women mask and are under diagnosed with Autism/ADHD. He concluded the video with “How many Starbucks cups can she own before it’s considered a hyper fixation, and not just a hobby?!” I’d say about 35 cups ago, pal. The best part? I AM diagnosed, and now I’m also a little more self aware. 😅 #STARBUCKS#cups#starbuckscup#hyperfixations#collection#toomany#noroom#adhdadult
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... Read moreIt's funny, isn't it? That moment when you look at your beloved collection and a little voice inside, or maybe a funny TikTok, makes you wonder if you've crossed a line from 'enthusiast' to 'obsessed.' For me, with my growing lineup of colorful Starbucks tumblers and cups, that question of 'how many is too many?' hits close to home. The original post really resonated with me because it perfectly captured that feeling of having a passion that others might see as excessive, but for us, it's so much more.
I mean, who can resist a beautifully designed Starbucks cup? Each one feels like a little piece of art, a memory from a trip, or just a bright spot on a gloomy morning. My shelves are practically overflowing, and I totally get the 'no room' hashtag! It’s not just about the cup itself; it’s the thrill of the hunt, the excitement of finding a new design, and the satisfaction of seeing them all lined up. It brings a unique kind of joy that’s hard to explain to someone who doesn't collect.
But let's be real, managing a collection of this size – especially when we're talking about dozens of cups – does come with its challenges. Finding enough space for them all, keeping them clean, and deciding which ones to use (or even just display prominently) can be a mini-project in itself. I've experimented with different display shelves, rotating my favorites seasonally, and even dedicating a whole cupboard just for the overflow. It’s a constant battle between wanting to show them off and needing to keep things organized. Sometimes I wonder if I should declutter, but then I look at them and think, 'Nope, each one sparks joy!'
And that's where the hyperfixation aspect comes in, especially for those of us with ADHD. What might seem like an ordinary hobby to some can become an incredibly intense, all-consuming interest for us. It’s not just a passing fancy; it’s a deep dive into something that truly captures our attention and provides a sense of comfort and routine. It's a way to channel energy and focus, and honestly, it can be a really positive outlet. Instead of seeing it as a 'problem,' I’ve learned to embrace it as part of how my brain works. It’s about understanding that these collections aren't just random purchases; they often serve a deeper psychological need.
So, if you’re also looking at your own collection of Starbucks cups (or anything else, really) and asking yourself 'how many is too many?', remember that it’s all relative. If it brings you happiness, doesn't cause significant stress, and you can manage it, then perhaps 'too many' is just the right amount for you. Maybe it's time to invest in another display shelf, find creative storage solutions, or just embrace the beautiful chaos of your passion. After all, life’s too short not to enjoy the things that make you smile – even if it means having a few (or a few dozen!) extra tumblers!