episode 5, I don’t have a will
I remember avoiding the topic of creating a will for most of my twenties, just like many people do. It always seemed like something to worry about later, but once I hit thirty, I began to realize the importance of being responsible about this. Setting up a will isn’t just about planning for after you’re gone—it’s about making sure your wishes are clear and your loved ones aren’t left guessing. The process can feel intimidating at first. For me, it started with reaching out to an attorney and getting a 12-page form that needed to be carefully filled out. The amount of detail required made it clear this isn’t a simple task. There are many decisions to make, from who gets what, appointment of guardians, to powers of attorney, and even trusts to consider. It’s definitely not "super fun," but it’s necessary. One of the most helpful parts of my experience was the initial two-hour meeting with the attorney. It was a deep dive into everything, where I could ask questions and clarify doubts—something I highly recommend. Having that session helped me feel more informed and less overwhelmed. It’s important to remember that everyone’s situation is unique, so it’s worth making time to discuss your individual circumstances. After the meeting, we put together four basic documents: the will, a trust, power of attorney, and another essential document I had to double-check. Completing these took some homework, but organizing everything in a binder made the whole plan tangible and manageable. If you’re like me and have been putting off doing a will, know that it’s a common feeling. But taking the step to face it head-on will bring peace of mind. Preparing these documents now helps protect your future and those you care about. Start small, seek professional advice, and take it step by step—it’s worth it to get your life together legally and responsibly.

Girl I got one when I was 24 and my husband died, he was also 24 and dint have one and I got SCREWED! Had to get a lawyer and all the mess🤣😭 you literally never know