What do you think about BF‘s best female friends?

I love my boyfriend — we’ve been together 3 years and things are solid. But he’s got these two girl friends I cannot vibe with. From day one, they’ve given me weird energy — super territorial, like they’re lowkey competing.

One night early on, I made the mistake of checking their group chat (yeah, not proud). That’s when I saw he’d told them about one of my biggest insecurities — how I struggle with body confidence. And instead of being supportive, they literally joked about it. Even sent a video mocking me.

He apologized after I confronted him, and we moved past it… kind of. But no matter how nice I act, I still can’t stand them. I just know they’re in my permanent “nope” zone. Like, is it crazy to never like certain people in your partner’s life even if everything else is fine?

#AskLemon8 #letschat

2025/10/28 Edited to

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You aren’t going to like everyone anyway and I can understand why you don’t like those two because they are talking bull about you . Your boyfriend needs to stop running his mouth about your feelings and you all affairs. He is in a relationship with you and not his female buddies

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