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#cozychats #lemon8challenge

I have been telling myself "tomorrow" for a week straight. My brain is a master at convincing me that my "future self" will have more energy. Are you a "do it now" person or a "professional procrastinator" like me?

#chat #povs #honest

2025/12/25 Edited to

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Thanks for sharing your view on this, it actually made me pause for a minute and rethink my own perspective.

I’ve thought about this before, and I still don’t think it works the way it’s often described.

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